i hate my neighbours

@sandoo (223)
Jamaica
August 18, 2006 4:35pm CST
who do you cope with neighbours that are selfish
6 responses
@anup000 (219)
• India
20 Aug 06
This is full of people who hate either person or a thing. By developing hatredness, you are devoting your valuable time for seemingly lesser important creatures. If hatred feeling runs in your blood, your feelings become harsh. It will have bearing on your decisions. Your mind gets disturbed quite often. Education has given us culture. I also once upon a time used to hate. But later realised it is not worth. All you can do is to ignore the guys (instead of hate). Whenever the thought of those people come to your mind, just ignore and concentrate on your routine. You see, you will be a different person. Havenot you heard of TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS - I hate you because you have me. Instead, why not we develop an attitude, I love you because you love me?
• India
20 Aug 06
I hate the people who are selfish, am honest, but not for selfish people. I know how to deal wit those kind of people. Don't think about them just deal them in their way.So they will ran away from us.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
19 Aug 06
Basically most human beings are selfish. If your neighbours are selfish, they may be more selfish. What is important is live and let live. The hatredness should not take us too far to keep them away. Hate begets hate. Be cool. Bear all their idiosyncracies. Have patience. Try to ignore them for a while. Our behaviour should be so perfect, we must make the neighbour to come to us to apologize for their behaviour and your pardon them. You both will be friends. It is always better to have a good friendship with neighbours.
@havoc425 (78)
• United States
18 Aug 06
i hate my neibors too. I just kick there dog to get revenge.
• United States
18 Aug 06
my neighbors suck. the family "homeschools" the kids and they are pale as can be. the brother who lives there plays his drumset at like, 3 in the morning. and they let their little 4 yearold boy run around in fairy costumes. OH and they have no car.
@Snooze (610)
• United States
19 Aug 06
Life has changed so much in the last few years - our society is so different. Everyone is looking out for themselves. What the heck happened to sitting on the porch and getting to know everyone. I've been here 2 years, and I don't really know anyone in my neighborhood. And I'm an outgoing guy.