some things that you shouldn't do

April 29, 2008 3:24pm CST
...when you have a brand new relationship. Some women might jump over their heads at the beginning of a relationship and imagine their whole future by the side of that man. Here are some things that scare the guys away. Dragging him to a wedding after a 2nd date is not a good idea. That would scare him away and make him think of commitment. From my own personal experience :talking about your sister's or best friend's boyfriend all the time won't look good either. That would be the competition or he might think you want him to change. Telling him what handsome kids you might have together ... OMG...he will run that not even Forrest Gump won't exceed him. What other lines did you use by mistake that made your boyfriend go away?
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@subha12 (18453)
• India
30 Apr 08
its really a good discussion. you have really kept this noted in a funny fashion. but i think these are true advises. don't be too fast in any relationship. that can spoil it.
• United States
29 Apr 08
It's a fairly standard female trait to think about the future when attempting to choose a partner. I started talking about potentials almost immediately with my first boyfriend. I talked about what I wanted out of life, relationships, children(that I refuse to ever have any), even that I have a chronic illness and whoever I ended up with would be required to take care of me, possibly forever if I never get better. We're getting married in 4 weeks.
@rmuxagirl (7561)
• United States
29 Apr 08
I think definitely talking about marriage a few weeks into the relationship is a bad thing. Something else women should not do would be to talk about their Ex all the time. I think it would make the current boyfriend think she is not over him you know. Or that he's getting compared.