to all singles..
May 1, 2008 1:44am CST
hello friends! i've been single for a month. honestly i miss all the happy times and small fights that i'd been through with my last bf. i really miss having someone beside me all the time. i just want to ask, if you feel the same way with me. do you feel like having a new relationship again or just stay single for the moment? how do you cope up with the loneliness you feel? for how many months have you been single?
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2 May 08
it depends, really. when i broke up with my last bf, i was really happy and relived because i have the freedom i wanted.. i no longer feel suffocated with him and his ways... barely 6 months... (only 4 months to be exact... ) i feel sometimes i wish i have someone to cuddle with again... someone i can send sweet messages, someone i can call cute names and terms of endearment... someone i can always call on to accompany me to movies, to buy some things... to get some important papers, these things i really miss about having someone beside you. i wish to find someone i can spend my life with.. someone i can always say i love him more today than before... not someone i am not comfortable with. i was more lonely when i was with someone i do not love anymore.. so it is better this way now...
1 May 08
hi there, i know how you feel coz i've been in that kind of situation before..yah, i agree that it's really missing the times of laughter, small fights, hugs, kisses, holding hands, it's really killing me..the feeling was so painful and it's almost 4yrs and until now i'm still single..there are suitors but i dont feel to have another relationship again, i mean for me it's not time because i'm happy being single and with my child..theres a right time for that..good luck to you girl.. i hope that you will cope with loneliness..yes you can.. ok..
• United States
9 May 08
I would say stay single for a little while. You don't want to jump right into a new relationship after only a month of being single. I handled it by going out with the girls a lot or relishing in the time i had to learn more about myself and read a good book.
• Davao, Philippines
5 May 08
me and my girl friend break up 3 months ago but i felt not lonely because of my friends that always their on my side. although sometimes during night time imagine our memories but that's part of my past already. i prefer to stay single at the moment.
1 May 08
hey i am sinle for more than last 8 months. Now i feel its better to be single. i can to whatever i want without beinge needed to answer anyone. no more fights. i have all the time in this world. But sometimes i miss her. Anyways i do read books surf on net, watch movies and etc. Anyways i am hapy now and i dont intend to get into any kind of relationship for next couple of months or years maybe! Enjoy bing single!