Do you change your mood?
May 4, 2008 10:39am CST
An idea of starting these kind of general discussion just came into my mind a moment ago. It is just that I am wondering if you guys change your mood when you try to want to make love with your partner and she will just suddenly and definitely say to you that she don't want to? I am still innocent in those kind of stuffs and I usually just want to know if anyone of you out there changes their mood or loses their temper at all when you really want to make love with her but totally says a big NO. How does it feel when you are on that kind of situation? I am just a student and I was thinking that I just don't know how I would react when that time comes. Have a great time guys...^_^
• United States
4 May 08
Well I can't answer for the guy but I can give you a woman's point of view. First of all believe it or not women are not the only ones who sometimes are not in the mood. Men sometimes are too tired or have so much on their minds that they don't want to either. I think women are more understanding of this then men. In most of my relationships and those of my friends. When the woman isnt in the mood most guys are hurt or angry. Listen guys, its not all about you. We are not saying no because we are rejecting you. We are saying no because we are tired or have a lot on our minds. Then when the guy is not in the mood and the woman says ok, goodnight. The guy is hurt. He thinks she just rejected him. Dude, we are being understanding. And you all say women are oversensitive. lol Of course sometimes a woman will just do it even if she isn't in the mood and still enjoy the experience most of the time. I've seen guys do the same thing. I guess it just depends on the situation.