did he love me??

Hi sarasx1, I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. I feel that I've somehow been in your shoes. I don't know exactly how your relationship is with him, because that also makes a difference on how he's acting with you. There could be many reasons for the way he's behaving. If you would tell me somethings about the two of you, maybe I could help :) ~Belacer

dump him and move on - he's already wasted 5 years of your life. Find a guy that will really love you and appreciate you and make you feel special! Don't settle for someone that doesn't even treat you right!

Did you try to ask him what is going on with him? Have you suggested to him you guys should go to counseling? Try hard as you can to get him to tell you what he is going through.