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Wow. You do sound confused. First, I think I would find out how the person I am in love with feels about me! I think I would just have to come out and ask him so I know where I stand. If he says he liked me but didn't see a future together, then I would probably try to put him out of my mind and concentrate on getting to know the guy I like but don't love yet. There are so many people in this world, and we could fall in love with any number of them. But if we want to have an enduring relationship, we have to pick just one and concentrate on him! Also, remember that it takes more than love to make a relationship last. Does the guy you still love have other qualities that would help you build a successful life together, if he does love you back? Do you have the same goals in life? Do you both want (or not want) children? Can you laugh at the same things? Does he treat you with respect? Can you trust him to be faithful to you? These are all important things to consider. Just take time to think it over; don't make any hasty decisions! The guy you end up with forever may not be either one of these, after all.