Have you ever felt you are in a loveless relationship??
By keep_onwatch
@keep_onwatch (2680)
India
May 14, 2008 4:29am CST
I love this man since 8 years, and we married four years bk, but i feel im in a loveless marriage as of now, i just dont feel the magic or any feelings of love or romance. we do have many disagreements and many more quarrels, but can that change my love for him? We r still 2gether, and i guess we'll be, but i feel love is gone from my side, he still says he is madly in love with me.I have known him since i was 16 and married him at 19 and so sometimes i feel i did very immaturely get into this, or may be not, i am confused.Did you ever experience this? If so can you tell me is this a passing phase or its for real?
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5 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 May 08
I had never been into any relation. now i understand your position. its not that so rare in relationship. you fell in love with some and then married. after a point of time you are feeling like its really nothing left. try to seek professional advice.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
15 May 08
Yeah? should i really seek and would it work? is ir more a mater of brain than a matter of heart? thanx 4 ur response
@fleur_petal (883)
• India
14 May 08
this is ajust a passing phase. every relationship has its own honeymoon phase which gets over after a particular time. ur love has not ended or gone. its jsut u seemed to hv bored with the relatinoship. try goin out with him for a vacation or romntc dates n u may discover the magic again. u jus cnt end 8 yr old relationship on the basis tht u hv disagreements or u thnk tht ur love is lost.
@keep_onwatch (2680)
• India
14 May 08
Yeah may b i just have to add a bit of spice to all of it...thanx 4 ur comment
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
15 May 08
i have been in that kind of relationship before. sadly it did not work out. i felt as though i lost love and lost everything i had that keep the realtionship going.
they say it is a choice... loving, that is. i guess it is but at some point you cannot really teach your heart to feel...
you are married to this person. i think you need to try not to lose the love... every realtionship, must have a reason, for your marriage to work you have got to have the love intact... more no less.
@Lizzie_PK_Swann (39)
• United States
15 May 08
I wish I could help you there. My husband and I have been together for about 13 years now, and married for 8 years. We have 2 kids, and for a while now, I just have wondered if the kids are the big thing keeping us together. He says he loves me and all, and I do say it to him, but the feeling seems to be so very vague any more. I just find myself to not really be interested in spending time with him alone at all.
I wish you all the luck in figuring out your heart with your situation!
