true love

@raina21 (130)
India
May 15, 2008 6:13am CST
hey I seriously need help, recently I met one guy and i think I've fallen in iove with him but I'm unable to understand what his true feelings are, he talks to me nicely, takes me out and also says he likes me a lot but how do I understand if its true love.I'm just not able to concentrate on anything.actually I'm not that good lookinn, so this makes me worry more that why should a guy fall in love with me coz I'm very simple and not very fashionable also. Please help me out.
12 responses
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 08
Well, what i have to say is, don't make yourself too down if you aren't pretty like others. To be frank, I'm not pretty either. And i met this one handsome guy *which is my current bf* who is handsome and cute. Some of the girls in my school and outside really likes him, but then he likes me. Sometimes i told him that he deserve better because I'm not beautiful and he can found prettier since he has lots of admires. But still, he wants me. What actually i want to say is, if someone really loves you, to them, you are pretty enough. And you don't have to be fashionable or have a pretty face to date with someone that is handsome. As long as you have a pure heart and you know how to treat him nicely, you really captured his heart and i think he is your true love:) And you should be telling yourself that you are lucky enough since he really loves you and you're not that good looking type *like you metioned* - like me. Well, till now, me and my boyfriend already 3years and still counting:) Sometimes good looking people don't look for someone who is good looking either. They search for a pure heart and i bet you have one:) So yeah, my boyfriend is Taqinaka:D Take care friend
@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 08
what a nice story.Well,i really trust my instinct that ieeko was the one for me and look how it turned out for us.GREAT!
@raina21 (130)
• India
11 Jun 08
thank you so mush for sharing that part with us.i think u r right and i should be more confident and beleive in myself. thanks
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
11 Jun 08
:) Thanks and grab him as long as you got the chance. He loves you and you know you're lucky:)
@rochakrs (36)
• India
10 Jul 08
hi.........i give a suggestion just avoid that guy in front of him....and see his responce if he still show a attitude of caring then i think he love u but do not take this to longer because it make a trench .
@raina21 (130)
• India
10 Jul 08
Hey thanks dear but the matter is already solved.Anyway thanks for responding.
• India
13 Jul 08
hi...now ,u r a luky because a find ur dream ...........good wishes to ur upcoming love releation
@eihdra (3116)
• Philippines
15 May 08
Why not try and talk or ask him in a not so obvious way, how he really feels about you..but before that ask yourself..would you rather wait for a long time for whatever unsure outcome of your friendly relationship and in the long run, be deeply hurt...Or, you could ask him now and find out sooner what he truly feels and get it over with...
@raina21 (130)
• India
17 May 08
thnx yaar I'll give this relationship a little more time and then will confront him with my feelings.lets see what happens
@eihdra (3116)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
thanks for the BR raina...
@muralirv (572)
• India
11 Jun 08
Try asking the guy about this matter.For this case we must not believe any of them.So Direct yourself to him and ask him directly.everything is success.all the best
@raina21 (130)
• India
11 Jun 08
Thnks so much.
@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 08
Hi raina.I know a friend who is facing the same situation like you.Don't be too down on yourself.Chin up.If someone likes you and you think he is quite alright,then just go ahead.Try to build a nice,wonderful relationship.True love comes naturally.You don't know if your relationship is a true love or not just by thinking or trying to understand.It comes from a happy and well-built relationship and based on trust,respect and sincere.Its just my opinion raina.Sorry if its not helping.Cheers.
@raina21 (130)
• India
10 Jun 08
No ur advice was of great help.Thanks for answering.
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
hi good afternoon!i think you don't have a serious problem..if you just met him recently you can't say that you're falling for him..maybe you're just admiring him the way he treats you...for the good things he is showing to you..but not that serious..don't get carried away..you're in a getting to know each other stage so you have to enjoy it first..enjoy dating with him...oww you said you can't concentrate well i think it's not love but he's a destruction..you know true love is an inspiration not a destruction...what makes you think that you're not good looking?don't worry you're beautiful..it's not the physical appearance of a person as long as you're a good person..you have a good heart..it makes you more good looking..and always remember that you deserves to love and be loved..okay? don't degrade yourself...instead always feel you're beautiful inside and out..good luck..
@raina21 (130)
• India
10 Jun 08
I know this is just the first stage of our relationship,we are just cuming to know each other thats the reason I'm more confused.I think we should just give time to this relationship and let the things happen instead of bothering ourselves too much.
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
10 Jun 08
I can't help you with whether he loves you or not but as for why he would be interested in you... True beauty comes from within and I'm sure he finds you beautiful.
@raina21 (130)
• India
10 Jun 08
Thanks a lot feeling much better now.
9 Jun 08
Trust me. I'm the same way. I think you should try to get his true feelings out of him or just ask him if he loves you. Dont be so down on yourself, i think he does love you back.
@raina21 (130)
• India
10 Jun 08
Hmm I know I'm feeling very down at this time not at all confident,ok thnx 4 ur response.
15 May 08
well i think i knw whats ur problem at this time..look you go out and try to give some more time on this relationship.dont get so close wid him.just try to read his mind..what are thing which he likes of you? have you ever felt that he's trying to touch you or his intensions are like that. if not then hez not a gud guy for you.. i want to tell you dat please try to know bout his frnd's circle and his past records.. and dont trust on anyone so easily..but i dont want u to get negative on this. he cud be ur dream boy.. if he tries to touch you...please stop him and see his reactions..check out his patience... and if he gets irritate of it...then leave him at dat time..hez not gud for you. allright.. take care..
@raina21 (130)
• India
17 May 08
ok thnx but I'm a little confused with your comment coz one time you say that I let him come close to me, if he doesn't do that he is not good.then you say that i stop him when he does so and if he gets irritated then also he is not good for me. I'm totally confused man.could you explain your point more clearly please..........
@amitpuri (457)
• India
15 May 08
Hey it is not the thing that always matter how you look and all that but main thing that is necessary for the love is the trust and faith and your true concern about your beloved. So that depend on the trust you are having in each other and i think you should ask him that whether he loves you in real or not as no one can judge anyone's mind so i think you should trust yourself and your love. If your love is true you wouldn't ever loose him so just don't worry and have faith in yourself and don't loose the confidence as every one looks good as it is the sight and point of view to watch and understand others.
@raina21 (130)
• India
17 May 08
I think you are right.thnx for ypur helpful suggestion.I'll definitely try and trust him more coz this is the main problem.I'm not able to trust people very easily.
@babymar (361)
• Philippines
15 May 08
i think you should befriend that guy to be able to know his character and also, if you are friends, then you will really feel if he has feelings for you or not...if you feel that he really loves you then go and tell him that you also love him.... love is not about physical attraction, it is more of the character of the person that makes a person fall in love....
@raina21 (130)
• India
15 May 08
thnx a lot yaar now I am seriously feeling more confident.I'll definitely tell him that I love him
@subha12 (18453)
• India
12 Jun 08
actually look may seem a factor for first appearance, but its not all. when two minds are comfiortable, it is not at all important. look out for intimate signs from him. you can better understand.