May 15, 2008 6:13am CST
hey I seriously need help, recently I met one guy and i think I've fallen in iove with him but I'm unable to understand what his true feelings are, he talks to me nicely, takes me out and also says he likes me a lot but how do I understand if its true love.I'm just not able to concentrate on anything.actually I'm not that good lookinn, so this makes me worry more that why should a guy fall in love with me coz I'm very simple and not very fashionable also. Please help me out.
10 Jun 08
Well, what i have to say is, don't make yourself too down if you aren't pretty like others. To be frank, I'm not pretty either. And i met this one handsome guy *which is my current bf* who is handsome and cute. Some of the girls in my school and outside really likes him, but then he likes me. Sometimes i told him that he deserve better because I'm not beautiful and he can found prettier since he has lots of admires. But still, he wants me. What actually i want to say is, if someone really loves you, to them, you are pretty enough. And you don't have to be fashionable or have a pretty face to date with someone that is handsome. As long as you have a pure heart and you know how to treat him nicely, you really captured his heart and i think he is your true love:) And you should be telling yourself that you are lucky enough since he really loves you and you're not that good looking type *like you metioned* - like me. Well, till now, me and my boyfriend already 3years and still counting:) Sometimes good looking people don't look for someone who is good looking either. They search for a pure heart and i bet you have one:) So yeah, my boyfriend is Taqinaka:D Take care friend
15 May 08
Why not try and talk or ask him in a not so obvious way, how he really feels about you..but before that ask yourself..would you rather wait for a long time for whatever unsure outcome of your friendly relationship and in the long run, be deeply hurt...Or, you could ask him now and find out sooner what he truly feels and get it over with...
10 Jun 08
Hi raina.I know a friend who is facing the same situation like you.Don't be too down on yourself.Chin up.If someone likes you and you think he is quite alright,then just go ahead.Try to build a nice,wonderful relationship.True love comes naturally.You don't know if your relationship is a true love or not just by thinking or trying to understand.It comes from a happy and well-built relationship and based on trust,respect and sincere.Its just my opinion raina.Sorry if its not helping.Cheers.
10 Jun 08
hi good afternoon!i think you don't have a serious problem..if you just met him recently you can't say that you're falling for him..maybe you're just admiring him the way he treats you...for the good things he is showing to you..but not that serious..don't get carried away..you're in a getting to know each other stage so you have to enjoy it first..enjoy dating with him...oww you said you can't concentrate well i think it's not love but he's a destruction..you know true love is an inspiration not a destruction...what makes you think that you're not good looking?don't worry you're beautiful..it's not the physical appearance of a person as long as you're a good person..you have a good heart..it makes you more good looking..and always remember that you deserves to love and be loved..okay? don't degrade yourself...instead always feel you're beautiful inside and out..good luck..
15 May 08
well i think i knw whats ur problem at this time..look you go out and try to give some more time on this relationship.dont get so close wid him.just try to read his mind..what are thing which he likes of you? have you ever felt that he's trying to touch you or his intensions are like that. if not then hez not a gud guy for you.. i want to tell you dat please try to know bout his frnd's circle and his past records.. and dont trust on anyone so easily..but i dont want u to get negative on this. he cud be ur dream boy.. if he tries to touch you...please stop him and see his reactions..check out his patience... and if he gets irritate of it...then leave him at dat time..hez not gud for you. allright.. take care..
17 May 08
ok thnx but I'm a little confused with your comment coz one time you say that I let him come close to me, if he doesn't do that he is not good.then you say that i stop him when he does so and if he gets irritated then also he is not good for me. I'm totally confused man.could you explain your point more clearly please..........
15 May 08
Hey it is not the thing that always matter how you look and all that but main thing that is necessary for the love is the trust and faith and your true concern about your beloved. So that depend on the trust you are having in each other and i think you should ask him that whether he loves you in real or not as no one can judge anyone's mind so i think you should trust yourself and your love. If your love is true you wouldn't ever loose him so just don't worry and have faith in yourself and don't loose the confidence as every one looks good as it is the sight and point of view to watch and understand others.
15 May 08
i think you should befriend that guy to be able to know his character and also, if you are friends, then you will really feel if he has feelings for you or not...if you feel that he really loves you then go and tell him that you also love him.... love is not about physical attraction, it is more of the character of the person that makes a person fall in love....