would you give a cheater a second chance?

I believe most women or at least more than half, give their boyfriends/husbands second chances after they have been caught cheating. I have never caught any of my ex's cheating but I did have the signs and I have given them another chance. Call me foolish but I am not alone.

i will only give just one chance...but before he can get that chance he has to work fr it hard! trust is the foundation of every relationship! earn it take care of it! if it is broken work to get it back!

This is not we are giving him a chance, but he's the one who's giving us a chance.

i wuold give him a second chance but if he did it repeatedly then i would kick him to the curb because its obvious that he cant handle commitment!!!!

Once a cheat always a cheat so no I would be out of the relationship immediately as I personally would never be able to trust again so even though I would forgve I wouldn't be able to forget and move on from it. Once trust has been broken it is very hard to reapir. Ellie :D

no way... not a chance. never. i hate cheaters. i would appreciate more, though it would hurt, a guy who could tell me to my face he cant go on anymore with the relationship other than do something behind my back. we all got limits and in relationships, this is my limit, and totally cut off from him even communication:)

all deserve a second chance.. but it defends upon the situation...

Not a chance. They would be out of my life immediately. Trust is a huge issue with me and if I give my all in a relationship I expect no less from them. I have actually been cheated on once, that I know of, and I tried to get over it but it's just not in me. I would never cheat on anyone so I guess I can't handle it when someone does it to me.

i dont think i can....i tried it though but i kept on thinking about the other girl and how he ever could have done it to me so after 2 weeks of giving him a chance...i gave up and broke up with him.

no i wouldn't. if i was to do that. i would be saying to him it was okay for him to cheat on me the first time. he can do it again.

Been there done that and thankfully I have learned from my mistake. If the person is able to cheat on you then they dont really love you and they never will. Forgiving them and staying with them is just showing the person that you are willing to settle for that, thats no way to live you need to show people that you deserve better and are willing to except no less. Also even if they did do it once and then never again (which is highly unlikely) the relationship wont last anyway because you will never be able to fully trust again, that seed of doubt has already been planted and even if it is down deep its likely to resurface at any time

No. I wouldn't because I try to put my relationship first. It wouldn't be my fault if something went wrong in my relationship so there would be nothing I could have done differently to change the situation. This being said, I think that if I did stay in the relationship that the paranoia would drive me nuts and make us both very unhappy. I wouldn't not want to waste anymore of my life with someone who didn't love me enough to stay faithful.

honestly i did it...i gave my X bf not just a second chance but third,forth haha...and worst of all he just not having dates with those gals but they have an affair.... but i believe that everything has an end and the kind of guy that i have love really wh*re and didn't have contendment in his life...he likes to collect b*tches...now i never give a damn on second chances...i've already learned never give chances to people who are cheaters,CHEATERS WILL ALWAYS BE CHEATERS!

I always swore that I would never stay with someone that cheated on me. And I stuck to that till I met the man I'm with now. He was with another women, but if it's true love it worths the problems that come. It's been 2 years and I still think about it, it still eats away at me. But also when you have kids you do whatever it takes to make the family stay together.

Everybody deserves a SECOND CHANCE, I would give it if that ever happens to me. But on a second chance, it's up for the girl to make up with it. Trust and respect is what makes a relationship strong, hopefully to last long as well..

Well all of us commit mistakes in our life. I will give him a second chance but if he will do it again I will not give him a chance again because he will do it over and over again. I will be hurt over and over again.

never give cheaters a second chance,they will just do it again..once is enough for a wise man.it's gonna be their lost..