What do U think of Long distance relationships??

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India
May 18, 2008 12:11am CST
Hey all u lovers out there can ya pls help in one thing.... my girlfriend has asked meeh the meaning of long distance relationship so cud u guyz pls tell me what does long distance relatioship actually means..... tahnks a loot lovers/..............
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15 responses
@fury2525 (139)
• United States
18 May 08
Well to me a long distance relationship means you all live aways from each other. My finacee and i met on yahoo, ive now been engaged for over a yr. And he is now living with me in my state. We have been happily together lil over 4 yrs now. If you work at it each day things can work out. For us I made sure we talked every day online and had webcams. Good luck, Lish
• India
18 May 08
thanks for ur good wishes mam........... i hope everything works out the same as it happened in yours....... once again thanks for your help...
• India
19 May 08
thanx for ur comment......... may i know what happened in your case...... only if u dont mind me asking you that...........
@fury2525 (139)
• United States
19 May 08
No i dont mind, but what exactly are you wanting to know? Lish
@ryshawneo (405)
• Philippines
18 May 08
Personally, I don't believe in a long distance relationship.. I don't think they will last long.. :)
• India
18 May 08
what i think about long distance relationship is that it wont last longer... same thinking man...
@fury2525 (139)
• United States
18 May 08
With negative attitudes brings negative results in life. Or you get what you put out. As for myself, proof is in the pudding, lil over 4 yrs together, engaged over a yr, living together and making plans to marry. To make anything in life work you have to work for it, meet things or people halfway. Most people just expect things or life to give it to them on a golden platter. Well life doesnt work that way. Unless you inherit or steal. I have always been a loyal and faithful person to my friends and my loved one. Some people just arent strong enough to make it. People have to earn respect from me. Anytime people have been hurt, it takes time to heal. For lack of faith on your alls parts. Sounds like you have been hurt or betrayed to trust. Trust is a basic for any type of relationship With our minds, heart and soul we can make anything good or bad in this life. And life is about Choices. Seems like you have made yours. Good luck with your life. Hopefully it wont be a lonely one
• India
19 May 08
thanks for ur comments furry.......... u know what .. i had a frnd whom i liked very much.. and we had been talking for the last so many months but i cud never go to her and propose to her cuz she lives in another country.. what do ya think of this kinda situation..........
@lieanat (1140)
• Malaysia
22 May 08
hi, it's a relationship between a guy or a girl or guy guy or girl girl. But both of them is separated by geographic location. For example, you staying in India, while your girl friend has to stay in U.K. and both of you still fall in love with one another and trying your best to keep this relationship!
@lieanat (1140)
• Malaysia
23 May 08
Okay, it's no harm to have a long distance relationship for me. but I'll try not to have it as it's more tiring way to date someone. But, if my partner has to work abroad for his career, I will support him and put in more love and effort to sustain our love relationship. I'll surf it when I free. Thanks.
@mayka123 (10126)
• India
19 May 08
A long distance relationship only means that the two lovers are away from each other where they cannot meet for some days or months. Usually it would mean they stay in different states or countries. Sometimes long distance relationships do work but there has to be very good communication between to two either thru letters/emails or phone calls. Since one person does not know what the other is doing communicating with each other and giving each other updates helps a lot.
• India
22 May 08
yeah even i feel that long distance relationship meens what you are saying but my dear i dont think that long distance relationships can ever work out. take this for instance i m living in india and if my gf is gone to australia for some course then it is very difficult to be inconatct with her as the isd calls are very expensive and one cant alwayz manage to be in conatct that frequently as the girl wants and then relationship gets all over. whats your say in this/.
@mayka123 (10126)
• India
22 May 08
Yes and because of no proper communication these long distance relationships hardly work. It is but natural that both the concerned persons meet other friends and get more close to them.
• Pakistan
18 May 08
long distance relationship.?sorry dear i donot know.
• India
19 May 08
its ok gal it actually never matters........... but may i know if u ever have been into any knda relationship........
• Pakistan
19 May 08
No not yet.but i looking forward in future
@roanne05 (1292)
• Oman
22 May 08
it when you are in a relationship but the two of you are not together coz' of distance.
• India
22 May 08
yes i surely know the meaning of this thing my friends but can anyone please tell me what do you think about this matter. and if you ever had any such kind of experience would you mind telling me what was the conclusion of that relationship. i will be waiting for your reply.
@greenline (14865)
• Canada
19 May 08
Long distance relationship means just "staying away from each other" !!! Have a nice day !
• India
22 May 08
thanks for your reply lady but actually i wasnt seeking for a reply like this from you i was seeking for a reply that would say whatd do you think about long distance relationships. yes and i will be waiting for your reply soon. thank you...
@subha12 (18462)
• India
19 May 08
long distance relationship is a relation where the couples stay long away from each other. may be in different places or different countries also. i do not know what else you want to know.
• India
22 May 08
actually i wanted to know what actuaaly you think of long distance relationships. whether it can be successfull or not. thats all i wish to know from all you guys here. thanks for your reply. and will be waiting to know what you think about long distance relationships. bbyeez
• Indonesia
19 May 08
A long distance relationship is a relationship I should live without. I can't have it, too hard for me. I need my man to be here with me. To be where I can see him. Sounds selfish and childish but the truth is a long distance relationship needs a very confident person in it, stable relationship and much more.
• India
22 May 08
yeah its all you wish. its always different thinking for all different people. and yes for a lady like you. ohk, and ya for making a stable relationship yes you have to be together. thanks for your reply.
• Indonesia
19 May 08
long distance relationship mean you have to be far2 away from her but you still have love commitment with her.. and you prohibited to make another relationship beside her
• India
22 May 08
ha ha. yes you are really speaking all the truth. i believe that long distance relationships cant work out . whether you love her little or very much. i m sorry but i asked what do you think of long distance relationships. not the meaning. waiting for your reply.
@Ben101 (120)
• United States
19 May 08
i think it can work out as long as you have enough communication but it can be really difficult at times it also depends if you were together for a while and then one moved and it became a long distance relationship then its more likely to work than if you only knew each other for a little while or met online or some such thing all the people i know who had relationships with people they met through the internet didn't work at all but i guess it could in some cases
• India
19 May 08
yeah meeh is also one other such case as an example dude........... even i liked a gal online but i could never propose her cuz she was so far frm mee.. she waz frm another country..........
@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
18 May 08
Long distance relationshiop is being away from someone you love physically. If you are asking me what I think of that kind of setup then my answer is "fine" as long as both partners stay in touch with each other and the trust should always be there.
• India
19 May 08
physicqally? huh huh.......hmm...... i dont think long distance relationship actually means that.. it means that ur in a relationship and far frm ur only other one...
@chechuva (1276)
• Philippines
18 May 08
hello! long distance affair only means that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend in different place. you don't see each other everyday, since you're very far from each other. one example, you live in USA and your girlfriend is in Canada. i for one had and have a long distance affair. my first lover is in US and the present is now in Dubai. actually its really hard to have a long distance affair, since we don't talk and see each other that much. i trust him though but its really hard to be far from my lover.
• India
19 May 08
are yaar u arent talking about any serious relationship that is why u keep on changing your boy friends... no offences here ok........... anywayz its ur life and its how u think/........
@bellaofchaos (11553)
• United States
18 May 08
A long distance relationship is a difficult one and is based on lots of trust .. YOu have to trust eachother to be faithful and you have to be faithful. It's stressfull becuase when you would like to be with you significant other you can't you have long distance phone calls. Long distance relationship put a real strain on a relationship that is on shakey ground or that is already under strain it can literally make or break a relationship depending if you give into temptation when you are lonely .. It's not impossible to do but it is emotionallly difficult and stressful and not a good idea if you have trust issues.
• India
18 May 08
thanks for ur opinion....
@shiloh_222 (5480)
• Philippines
18 May 08
Hi. i never been i a long distance relationship but i heard people say that "distance make that heart grow fonder." but if you ask me, geographical distance will be a test to prove whether two people are willing to put effort and time in a relationship that they want to progress to marriage. welcome to mylot and happy mylotting
• India
18 May 08
thanks for ur help friend... but she has actually asked me what do i think of long distance realtionship not what is the meaning of it............ hope u will be helping agian soon.....