making friends to the person i hate before...

Philippines
May 19, 2008 8:51am CST
We've been friends for couple of years already not until i get mad to her for judging me and saying bad things about me without knowing what really happens and without getting my own side for that matter and now she's trying to win me back. Am i suppose to accept her and stay cold at her?
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4 responses
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
20 May 08
Hmmmmm the best judge are u in this situation as u know her and all the situation.But if u ask for my advise, then i would say that every one deserve second chance and i am sure u might have share good memories with her, so why not to re instate them Take care
• Philippines
20 May 08
Yes i do have good memories with her and i'll just wait for the time to heal everythings. Thanks a lot!
@cupid74 (11394)
• Pakistan
20 May 08
hmmm my dear time is not going to heal, mind set is required for that. so just have ur mind set and things will be OK Take care
@jillbeth (2711)
• United States
19 May 08
If she sincerely apologizes, you should accept her apology. It's the right thing to do. That doesn't mean you should forget what she did, but you shouldn't bring it up again either if you decide to renew your friendship. We all make mistakes that we regret later. Of course, even if you forgive her, you don't have to hang around with her if you don't want to. We're all free to choose our own friends, but sometimes we don't choose wisely!
• Philippines
19 May 08
thank you for the comment. i'm also thinking of making friends to her again but not the same as we use to have before and now i don't want to hang out with her andeven to share problems to her again.
@chubibo (295)
• Philippines
20 May 08
if she is sincere for asking forgiveness then forgive and forget..its the sweetest decision you may have..happy posting!
@bestie (1458)
• Philippines
20 May 08
disregard that hatred,it doesn't do good! Anyway,past is past,just accept her friendship it will not harm you.