I'm getting married????

@dragxgt (119)
Philippines
May 21, 2008 9:18pm CST
my girlfriend* (no"s") want to have a baby i dont really know why she always say that she dont want to lose me, because she love me... but then i think im not ready to have a baby (maybe i need more practice =) )
3 responses
• Indonesia
23 May 08
I think nobody is ever ready for anything. When I went to elementary school I was afraid I couldn't do it. But as time goes by, everything went well and I even got good grades. At the first day I work I also felt I'm not prepared. But I learned everyday and don't feel burdened anymore. So I think the question is not whether you're ready to have a baby or not. If you love her and want to do the right thing, I guess marriage is a good (and romantic :)..) solution for your problem. Good luck my friend :)
@dragxgt (119)
• Philippines
24 May 08
Thanks for responding.. you married?
• Indonesia
25 May 08
I'm glad you asked. My boyfriend and I just bought our engagement rings (and will also be our wedding rings) yesterday :) I've waited for 8 years for him to propose me. I wish he did years ago, but hey, better late than never, right? :) I feel sooo happy! :)
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
25 May 08
i feel happy for you shakurani,,,good luck with your married life..now in regards to the discussion. just talk to her that your not yet ready...i also agree with shakurani that you can never be ready for anything...what is important is your willingness to learn...good luck!
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
22 May 08
I wouldn't marry or have a baby with her yet. If the only reason she wants all that is that she is afraid to loose you, you should run now while you can.
@dragxgt (119)
• Philippines
22 May 08
i cant run i love her but the only reason is that im afraid of the responsibility im still young 22 years old
@ameeluv (388)
• Saint Lucia
22 May 08
Maybe he feels insecure.. or maybe im wrong.. maybe she just loves you and wants to spend her whole life wih you good luck
@dragxgt (119)
• Philippines
22 May 08
maybe cause im away from her i can only spend time with here every time i go home (every weekends) call & text are the only way we communicate.