Can some one help me with my shack-up-phobia to my dear girlfriend?
May 22, 2008 1:10am CST
So far my girl friend and I live in different cities and we both love each other ,and recently we decided to shack up together in my shared flat next month.I feel very happy but a little nervous because I have not lived with any girls before and now I am worrying about if we can handle every thing well such as habit,money,contraception,job...Hope some one could give me a sound solution ,with many thanks.
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22 May 08
i suggest you should consult with her if she intend to get a job in your city. that's the point to decide if you have a independent live.of course,the fanance is not the sticking point of loving couples but a indenpendent living mode will be the base of love.keep liveing and keep the level of live when you relationship break down is a responsible attitude for each other.especially for male, we need more objective to think about everything upcoming happened.that's also the responsibility of us. goodluck!
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22 May 08
Are you sure? I would suggest you talk to your gf and tell her that you are unsure if you are ready, and that you are worried about all the expenses and other things that comes with living together. Talk it over and be sure that you are clear on all of the expenses and how everything is going to be split before allowing her to move in. Be aware that women do have different bathroom and kitchen habits then men.