Why do you think that a mother-in-law would talk about hair all the time?

cream_ mother-in-laws are crazy. They all have their little quirks and find ways to insult a daughter-in-law. Their motives are unpredictable, but I think you already figured out her comments come from jealousy. My mother-in-law used to tell me I had a big butt, which I didn't! I only weighed 105 pounds. My father-in-law told me I had a big nose. I learned rise above it and be the better person, not sink to their negative levels. No way should you consider cutting or hiding your hair. Somehow this woman has really affected you and is driving you crazy. The problem is hers, not yours. I don't know what your family politics are, but have you told your husband? Will he tell his mother to stop acting like a child and leave you alone? Can you tell her she's not welcome in your home if she continues pestering you about your hair? The problem is not about your hair, it's about whatever ugly emotion your mother-in-law is harboring. It may be something other than jeaoulsy, she's just using the hair issue as a vehicle to transfer her problems over to you. If you figure that out, you can stop the upsets. Sorry you have to deal with this.

Hi cream97! I do think that your mother in law is just envious of your hair. Your hair is long and maybe she really wished that she has that same kind of hair. She is just envious dear. If I were you, I will keep it long and really flaunt it when she is around. haha.. Take Care and God Bless! Happy Mylotting!

Hello dear cream. I am so sorry that you have got an annoying mother-in-law. I love to see ladies with long hair so long as it is well done. My wife also has long hair. I love to see her the way she wears long hair like waterfall. Enjoy your long hair without caring about what your mother-in-law comments, dear friend.

Maybe she is just jealous of you hair and wishes that hers were like it.

If you cut your hair it will grow back. After growing back will this stop her? Probably not, so you have to let your mother-in-law know that everybody is different. Some people have short hair, long hair, no hair its all in how you take care of it. It must be important for your mil to focus on you. Don't let her take your selfesteem away from you, don't let her. And please don't cut your hair because of her. She seems to have issues with you and it's not your fault. Go speed ahead and let her worry herself. Once she sees that it doesn't bother you about anything she say she will eventually leave you alone. But you got to show her your strenght, how strong will minded you are. If what she say bothers you I wouldn't let her see it. Laugh about it instead of showing her you're angry or upset. This will truly give her something to think about. Never let her see you sweat.