I want more kids but.....

@kassdaw (593)
United States
May 23, 2008 9:50pm CST
My husband says no. I think I have figured out why. Some of you have heard me talk about my son, he is 1 and half. He was a twin, and we lost his brother when I was 7 months along. I think he is afraid of that happening again. I don't know if there is anything that I can say that would change his mind. Anyone have any suggestions?
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@tessah (6621)
• United States
24 May 08
my deepest sympathies.. that must have been horrible to go through. i would give your husband some more time to heal from this. it hasnt even been two years since this happened. there really isnt anything you can say or do to speed up his grieving process.. this is something he has to go through and get past. all you can do is be there, listen when he needs/wants to talk, share how you feel as well, and just love him until hes ready. trying to push will only hurt him more. in the meantime.. enjoy your little boy and this man that you love.