wasting the effort?

@aowaow (1517)
Indonesia
May 24, 2008 1:25pm CST
Don't you think it a waste if we built the relationship for years, but it ends up in a day? Don't you think it will be more wasting time if we built another new relationship for Years, but it also ends up in a brief? Don't you think it will be wasting value of the relationship if we built several relationships for YEARS, but it also ends up living alone? Don't you ever realize when you stop the separation phase is the change of your emotional unrecognized by you? Don't you ever realize when you regret is the fruit of what you had planted before? Don't you realize a man and a woman is different? Don't you realize a cause is because of an effect? Don't you realize nobody's perfect? What about yours?
5 responses
@excellence7 (3477)
• Mauritius
25 May 08
I think, if you spent years to built up your relationship, you needed to have persevered and fight to save that bond..
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
26 May 08
Wise said, but why failed relationships were still happened?
• India
25 May 08
If mearly waste if long relaionship is ended in a day.Relatioship is like building up some house for long time and collapse for some natural reason.We felt bad for when such unexpected thing happen
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
26 May 08
Building takes longer time rather than to demolish the building.
@snakequeen (1300)
• India
25 May 08
Hi aowaow! I concur with you on all those points. It is life, it is how we have to carry on. When one door is closed, God opens another door! Just enjoy today with what is available! Tomorrow, we don't know, what is in store for us!
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
26 May 08
I understand. How do you make it happened?
@kerriannc (4281)
• Jamaica
24 May 08
All of what you are saying is true, but when you compromise yourself in a relationship for years and the person does not see that he/she has be taking and taking. I wonder what should you do next. I believe in moving on with your life. Then you reassess the past and do not make what happen affect the future. But sometimes we do not learn from our mistakes and so we carry the baggage in the new relationship and the same thing happen again. So we should learn from our mistake.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
26 May 08
I accept the other side existence. But blaming on other is the most case in relationship. How can we open our eyes of heart if we let the black cloud covering?
@acie_21 (5647)
• Philippines
24 Jul 09
maybe it sounds a waste of effort..but it will be wasted if a couple decided to get married and ends up cheating...cause in a relationship even though you have longer time with each other but the no happiness or meaning in both the couples still a waste of time instead finding whats right for you!and marriage is only for couples who love each other and a relationship that must last till the end of a persons life.that will be considered but if not yet married people do mistakes in choosing a partner thats why it ends up breaking in their longest relationship.then finding whats right for them!