wasting the effort?
May 24, 2008 1:25pm CST
Don't you think it a waste if we built the relationship for years, but it ends up in a day? Don't you think it will be more wasting time if we built another new relationship for Years, but it also ends up in a brief? Don't you think it will be wasting value of the relationship if we built several relationships for YEARS, but it also ends up living alone? Don't you ever realize when you stop the separation phase is the change of your emotional unrecognized by you? Don't you ever realize when you regret is the fruit of what you had planted before? Don't you realize a man and a woman is different? Don't you realize a cause is because of an effect? Don't you realize nobody's perfect? What about yours?
24 May 08
All of what you are saying is true, but when you compromise yourself in a relationship for years and the person does not see that he/she has be taking and taking. I wonder what should you do next. I believe in moving on with your life. Then you reassess the past and do not make what happen affect the future. But sometimes we do not learn from our mistakes and so we carry the baggage in the new relationship and the same thing happen again. So we should learn from our mistake.
24 Jul 09
maybe it sounds a waste of effort..but it will be wasted if a couple decided to get married and ends up cheating...cause in a relationship even though you have longer time with each other but the no happiness or meaning in both the couples still a waste of time instead finding whats right for you!and marriage is only for couples who love each other and a relationship that must last till the end of a persons life.that will be considered but if not yet married people do mistakes in choosing a partner thats why it ends up breaking in their longest relationship.then finding whats right for them!