please tell me what you my friends on mylot think

United States
May 24, 2008 4:08pm CST
my friend, was bestfriend with her ex before they start dating, she didn't even want to date him cause they were to close,but she end up agree to be his gf,so everything went fine, she fall in love with him and everything, she was a virgin at that time,the boy convince her to be intimate with him like you know you don't have anything to be afraid we are one now i'm yours you mine ,then after like a week,he barely calls her, when she call him she don't pick up, when he finally pick up after 2 days, she ask him what's going on,why all of the sudden you not picking up my phone calls you don't come over my house,he answer that he's busy with school and work that he don't have time,she was like i don't think that's the reason why u not calling me,that's just excuses,if you don't want to be with me just feel free to tell me don't be a coward,that's when he admit to her that he don't have the same feeling for her no more he didn't know how to tell her that,she was devastated,she feel like it's the end of the world,she cry night and days cause she feel use, so now after a year she started to get over him but she still have deep feeling for him.so now they start talking as friend,one day he call her to say that he's gonna be a father, she was shock but he say he's not with the baby mama,now he's acting like he want her back, he's being a big tease, she don't know what to do in that situation, she still care for him she want to know if she should let herself available to him or not
1 response
• Canada
24 May 08
What I feel is that she should not even answer the phone.He hurt her and now he is showing how he is not a good man at all, he has a baby on the way and he isn't with the mother, and it doesn't sound like he plans to try to work on that relationship, not even for his child. I think she should respect herself enough to find someone to love her for the person that she is, not someone who will only run to her when it is at his own convenience!