Has your spouse ever pawned off your wedding ring and blame it on someone else?

United States
May 27, 2008 11:45pm CST
Ok so september of 2007 my husbnad and i had problems, i put my wedding ring into the drawer becuase he kicked me in my leg. I noticed one day it was gone, he said that it was this guy friend of our's, what i didnt know is he used myth. So we filed a police report and it been missing since. Well one day after getting taco inn with my husband I wantedto go to a local pawn shop we ushually go to, and yes there folks was my ring. I knew it was, my husband said it wasn't scouldnt be, but a woman knows her ring ok! Took it up to the counter and told him I needed to know when it was pawned and that it was stolen. He said september 2007.... I said ok... I needed to get ahold of theo fficer to come claim it for me, coulndt get a hold of him, so my husbnad took his id out and was going to hold it, then the pawn dealer said... actually dude your the one who pawned it! I was so embarrased. I found out he pawned it for drugs. He went to the hospital for the habit in january, and has been trying to change, I been with him since i was 16 and married him at 21 Im 22 now, and i feel I married a complete stranger and theres no emotions left. Yet im afraid to be alone... How can I forgive a thing like this? How do you repair love?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
28 May 08
Wow, now my fiance hasn't and well he never will... I am sorry that this has happened to you and I can tell you that will take a long time to heal from this. I can't personally tell you whether you should forgive him or not but I will tell you what people have told me... and what people will tell one another when something like this happens.... You will find a way through this... like I said I can't tell you to forgive him but I can't tell you to stay with him either... I suggest trying to talk to him and ask him about it. Good Luck Sweetie