Respect comes from .....?

See it depends on how you lost your respect. the incident which made you lose respect is very important. The only thing you can do now is wait for another opportunity to redeem your respect. For that you have to wait and do all the right things. Very soon you will be respected by all around you

I respect others who are honest with me, who are willing to admit their own mistakes, who stand up for what they believe in, and who treat me as an equal. You don't mention what you did to lose respect, but you may need to ask for forgiveness for whatever you did and try to make things right again. It may take some time for people to learn respect you again, it's something that must be earned by your own behavior and attitude.