What are we going to do for the younger generation?

@sjlg01 (46)
United States
May 28, 2008 6:01pm CST
I see alot of times that the children now a days are not getting any positive influence or are not being taught any positive values. If people don't do something about this when we get older we are going to be surrounded by people who dont care about anything accept themselves. I just want to know what people think about this and if I am right when I say this?
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@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
28 May 08
hi sjlg that you should teach your children before they get older my sister has 2 kids and she never teach them any thing so i say when my sister kids get older they well be mean but the kids father try to teach them the right way i allways heard to teach your kids while they are young i got a son is 6 now and he is good i not saying i got a good kid LOL take care
@sjlg01 (46)
• United States
28 May 08
I don't have any kids yet. But I do see that we have a big problem coming and we havve to teach these kids. While we have the chance. You are right when you say to teach them why they are young. They say to train a child in the way they should go so when they get older they will not depart. Thanks for your response, take care.
@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
29 May 08
you are welcome take care
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
28 May 08
I believe strongly in the saying.. it takes a village to raise a child. I am probably known as the strict mom in our community however I am also known as the mom that my kids can tell me anything. I figure it washes itself out. The kids in town know that I will praise them when they do good and I will correct them when I know they do something bad. I am not a mom that will stand back and watch without stepping in if I think someone could get hurt. I am also the same one that will say hey good job if I know a child has accomplished something. I know it was mentioned about parents not having time to instill values and I must say that is partly true. I know I worked my 50-60 hours a week when my children were younger because I was a single mom that found a job that gave us pretty much everything we needed. I decided to then stay at home because I realized my girls were hitting their teens and I was missing out on a lot. Now I did still give them their values but I wasn't there to give them everything they needed. It wasn't as if they were unhappy but I believe they are happier now that I am able to stay home. Of course we miss the money but I do think that this is more important. Not everyone though can do that. I think that is why we are all responsible for helping raise the children in the community. However that means being there for both the negative and positive. Children need praise too.
@sjlg01 (46)
• United States
28 May 08
You are right, it does take a village to raise a child. They need that positive influece everywhere they go, so they can see that and learn from it. It is hard too for alot of families when the parents work so hard. And alot of times there is only one parent in the home which makes it even harder. I dont know what we can do to change things. But I think the more adults, the ones that are really for living right and being a positive influence on these kids, if whenever they have a chance can show a child something positive and show them what they should be doing in life. Then that would help. I pray that alot of these adults pay more attention to these kids, they well be the ones running this country in years to come. Thank you for your response
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
28 May 08
Well I don't want to upset anyone in here but I think a lot of the problem these days is parents don't really have time to instill values into their children, a lot of children are spending most of their awake times in day care or with a stranger, I think the input of mothers in particular is so important in the early years, I was brought up in the days where mothers stayed home to raise their children to teach them commonsense and to instill the values they themselves were taught, I know people these days have it hard and have to work but I also think the young couple of today want too much too soon as a couple I know are struggling but can not do without a dishwasher...
@ashly1979 (1376)
• United States
28 May 08
hi lilaclady i agree with you on parents now days i know some mothers and fathers has to work now days to make money but the less time you spend with your kids they are not going to get to know you i am not trying to get anyone mad at me on mylot but look at the word to day kids get older and doing mean things i dont know how many of you read the news now days about the teen getting in to things they should not have like teen have kids and so on take care