The one who loves you, or the one you love?
@blindmoongoddess (426)
Philippines
5 responses
@prajitnair (177)
• India
1 Jun 08
well i love someone so much and even she loves me very much...so i would definetly choose to stay with her for my eternity...
and i wish god listens to our prayers....
@blindmoongoddess (426)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
Wow! You're very lucky because the one you love also loves you. It's a blessing. I remember the quote in the movie, "Moulin Rouge," "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return." I wish both of you the best.
@blindmoongoddess (426)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
Very few are blessed to be both the lover and the beloved. Yes, I agree with your mom -- in most cases, one either has to be the lover or the beloved. My question is tantamount to this one -- if you can't be both, would you rather be the lover or the beloved?
Indeed it's a difficult choice. If I were to choose the one who loves me more than I love him, I might learn to love him in time, and my love for him might just grow. But is this possible? I don't want to end up pining for somebody else.
On the other hand, if I were to choose the one I love and this guy doesn't really love me as much as I love him, I might find myself having to let go of the him because he's not happy with me. I don't want this to happen either.
This is really tough.
@devtina (371)
• India
1 Jun 08
Thats a nice question tricky though....well for me it surely would be both ;) cause i married the man i loved and the man who married me loves me still ;) so we are in love with each other and it will go on ...; ) and i do thank GOD for bringing us together...can't imagine a life without him ....
