The one who loves you, or the one you love?

Philippines
June 1, 2008 11:29am CST
I remember the '80s song which goes, "Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you, or are you going back to the one you love?" If you had to choose between the two, what choice would you make?
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• India
1 Jun 08
well i love someone so much and even she loves me very much...so i would definetly choose to stay with her for my eternity... and i wish god listens to our prayers....
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
Wow! You're very lucky because the one you love also loves you. It's a blessing. I remember the quote in the movie, "Moulin Rouge," "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return." I wish both of you the best.
• India
1 Jun 08
hey thanks a lot and ya best of luck to you too..bye tc.
@bajang (99)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
You're so lucky...
@INGA832 (1114)
• Russian Federation
1 Jun 08
It's rather difficult choice. My mum says that one loves and another is loved. As for me I would rather stay with one whom I love, not with a person that I can't stand.
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
Very few are blessed to be both the lover and the beloved. Yes, I agree with your mom -- in most cases, one either has to be the lover or the beloved. My question is tantamount to this one -- if you can't be both, would you rather be the lover or the beloved? Indeed it's a difficult choice. If I were to choose the one who loves me more than I love him, I might learn to love him in time, and my love for him might just grow. But is this possible? I don't want to end up pining for somebody else. On the other hand, if I were to choose the one I love and this guy doesn't really love me as much as I love him, I might find myself having to let go of the him because he's not happy with me. I don't want this to happen either. This is really tough.
• Philippines
28 Jun 08
No second thought I choose "the one I love".
@devtina (371)
• India
1 Jun 08
Thats a nice question tricky though....well for me it surely would be both ;) cause i married the man i loved and the man who married me loves me still ;) so we are in love with each other and it will go on ...; ) and i do thank GOD for bringing us together...can't imagine a life without him ....
• Egypt
1 Jun 08
will return to the one I love and ,try to make it loves me