For all the ladies out there...

@taface412 (3177)
United States
June 1, 2008 5:24pm CST
What is your idea of the perfect man? I do not mean the kind that does not exist, but the kind that actually is perfect for you. And if there is currently a man in your life what are the things you would do to improve upon him to make him "your" perfect man?
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12 responses
• United States
1 Jun 08
My man is perfect already! I know that sounds odd, but there isn't a thing I would change about him. He's the perfect complement to me, he makes me laugh, he's good with money, he loves my kids. I can't say enough good things about him. Yes, he even cooks and cleans! In fact, in my profile, I have a picture of him doing the dishes! I couldn't ask for a better man.
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@skinnychick (6907)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I think that if you have your mate that you are destined to be with. You shouldn't have to make any improvements to him. I may be naive but this is how I feel. Your in love with that person and they are a part of your life. There was a reason that you brought them into your life why would you want to change them? We all have our quirks and things and we learn to adapt to them. I wouldn't want to change my perfect guy...
• United States
2 Jun 08
I agree with you 100%. Some of us (myself included)get in a hurry to find our soul mate and end up marrying the wrong person. Those are the ones we long to make changes on. At least that was my experience. My ex I would have changed almost everything about him.
• United States
2 Jun 08
Some things need to be left alone and if it's that true love, you can't go changing people. By the way my marriage didn't work for the same reason.
• United States
3 Jun 08
my idea of the perfect man?hmmmm...I guess he was not born yet...lol! anyway my ideal man Im dreaming of is tall bcoz Im short,and white bcoz Im dark..lol!and handsome for sure bcoz Im ugly:-)I don't want my kids like ugly duckling....hehehehhe!
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
As simple as someone who can treat me fairly no matter what(^^,)
@SomeCowgirl (32270)
• United States
2 Jun 08
I agree with your first poster in saying that My man is perfect to me and I would not change him for the world. I met him and fell in love with him and he has not changed from the way he was when I met him. I would not improve him in anyway as should have been obvious from my first statement. He is my perfect match, my cowboy for I am his cowgirl. My sweetheart... lol.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
2 Jun 08
As long I always thought he is a perfect one to me. No matter what I did, I decided, I talked to him, and sort of stuff. It all will be happened with this positive thought. When the positive aura is always surrounding your family, your relationship, and along with forgiveness and patience, your relationship will endure. Not only to him, but to Him, to peers, friends, and parents. Because once the curiosity slips in your relationship, then ...
• United States
2 Jun 08
I would not change my man, He is perfect for me. Sometimes I wish he would be more romantic but if he was then the romantic times would not be so special. It would become the norm and lose meaning. My man is a great friend, lover, provider, father, he is smart, funny, tender yet strong, he is a take charge kind of guy, he loves to fish, hunt, and travel, he makes me feel beautiful, loved, and protected. If I changed one thing about him it would mess up the whole dynamic that makes up my man and he would no longer be the man I fell in love with. He is my everything and without him I would not be living just existing.
@jstmarfz (1499)
• United States
2 Jun 08
within myself, i know i have found the perfect one for me. i dont have to do anything for him to be perfect. the important is his really is from the day i met him and until the day we are together. you know what made me think his perfect? it was coz he always me feel everything is great in me, he alway makes me happy and do things that give me security with him and the important thing is, how he makes me feel that how much he loves me..that is my perfect man.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
The perfect for is when a man is responsible..
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
I haven't met one really, I'm sure he doesn't exist, but I have an idea of a man that'll be perfect for me -- someone who will love all of me, positives and negatives included. That's just the perfect guy...
@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
1 Jun 08
LOL. Prefect man make I see there is none on earth. You cannot improve/change someone if he's doesn't want it. So either you accept this person and make happiness around him or you live a life of misery. So I will say I rather make myself happy than having a perfect man.
• Canada
1 Jun 08
My perfect man is the man whom I married. He loves me for who I am, he is a wonderful person worth loving, he's honest and respectful, he believes in total equality for all people, and he's an all-around INTELLEGENT and unique person.