Military Spouses: what are some of the struggles that you've faced?

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I am getting ready to marry my US Marine. He's out of the service now, but for 4 years we both went through some crazy times. From long distance love, to phone arguements, ect ect. I'm just wondering... what are some of the problems or hardships you other military spouses have faced? Whether it's getting pissed off that you never get help with the dishes... or bigger problems. Just use this as a sounding board... a place to vent.