Looking backward or forward?

Philippines
June 2, 2008 12:30am CST
Are you the type of person who takes responsibility for all of his/her actions, or are you the type who keeps on looking back to the decisions you have made in life and think, "I wish I've done this or that instead"? I have made a great deal of not-so-wise decisions before, and although it is true that I can't go back and change them, I still can't help but wonder what it would be like if I've made a different choice at the time.\ Have you ever wondered the same thing?
2 responses
@madlees (1377)
• India
2 Jun 08
Hi Weng, There is no point looking backwards to see if we have wrong and if so where we have gone wrong. We'll get into unnecessary depressions if we ever look into our past and brood about our wrong decisions. I would like to take responsibility for all of my actions. Whatever I have, good or bad, the decision was mine and I had done it. There is no point in brooding over that. If there was anything wrong, the results would be faced by me and no one else. So whenever you take decisions think it over and then take. You can not change it later, some of them you may correct later but not all. Some of the decisions you will have to face and live with all the time. There will not be time to look back and think it out. All the best for your future. Think well before you decide.
• Philippines
2 Jun 08
Yeah, but can't help it sometimes... Thanks madlees! All the best for you too...^^
• China
4 Jun 08
may be i do not have a wise mind,after doing something,i always regret them,but i can not go back and change them,meanwhile i can not help but wonder what it would be like if i have made a different choic at at time. i alway do not conquer the mind of doing something,Although we should look forword.