another surprised

@julyteen (13259)
Davao, Philippines
June 3, 2008 10:04am CST
early this morning my ex text me that she has something to sent me through a tricycle driver. she never mention what would be her surprised, few minutes later, one tricycle stop at the door step of my shop and give me a plastic ware, i open immediately, wow! my favorite food, it's "macaroni". i am asking here why she send me foods? she said, " i want, you will always remember me" since my love for her is back. how will i manage this feeling, i don't want to engage relationship as of the moment, i want to focus my studies first.
8 responses
@Jemina (5783)
4 Jun 08
Wow, I think you should appreciate it really. Sometimes we never realize the importance of someone until they are taken away from us. You can focus on your studies and when you have time to relax just send her a text saying you appreciate her kindness. You can also send her a text narrating what makes you busy without sounding like you're dismissing her away.
@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Jun 08
wow, i love your ideas my friend. i will try your advised.
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@Jemina (5783)
5 Jun 08
Hey, Thank you for the pencil. Makes my day brighter.
• Indonesia
4 Jun 08
She really seems to still has lots of feelings for you. Just thank her for the gift, and wow, it's a nice gift, and to send it with a tricycle? That's so cute, don't have anything like that here. If you want to focus on your study, do it, tell her that, she should understand. Have a nice macaroni meal!
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Jun 08
yes it is very common here, a tricycle. LOL. before it doesn't work but now she promise that she had change her attitude. i am observing her if she really change.
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
just go with the flow..take evrything slowly dont rush into things..since you also wanted to focus on your studies first then just dont rush up with those things..first thing first if she really love you she can wait..^_^
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Jun 08
i think many times what would be my best decision with this matter. hope i can come up with the best one.
@aseretdd (13736)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
Seems like your ex-girlfriend is trying to win back your love... but the question is... do you want her back in your life... if you are not yet ready to have a commitment... then i suggest you tell her immediately... or she might expect something in return for the affection that she is showing you... you can always tell her in a nice and polite manner that you want to focus on your studies first...
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Jun 08
you are right, i am not ready to have another commitment with her. i tell her about my reason last january 01, 2008 that i am not ready for another commitment and she felt very disappointed. now she is back, i don't know if i can resist.
@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
3 Jun 08
When two persons love each other that feelings will always be there. So I will advise you to tell her about your feelings but let her know that you have your studies and that comes first. Make her see the seriousness of the situation were your studies are concern. Alot of persons fall in love but the future should always be protected. All the best.
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Jun 08
i am afraid to tell her because she may feel disappointed if i refused for another commitment. i am very busy person, i manage my own offline business, part time students and also my online work.
@teka44 (3425)
• Brazil
3 Jun 08
Hi julyteen. If both feel love yet, the best way is be honest and tell her what you feel. Tell that you love her but don't want to have distraction from your studies. I think that if she really loves you will understand it and will give you a time to get in studies, and will wait for you. You can meet her for a while in the weekends and keep in touch with. But only in the weekends, make sure that she understand it. good luck.
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Jun 08
if ever i can decide for another commitment with her, i hope i can manage even at my hectic schedule.
@jillmalitz (5132)
• United States
3 Jun 08
Sounds like you both still have a connection. I do agree that if you are thinking of trying to get back together take it slow. Good luck.
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@julyteen (13259)
• Davao, Philippines
4 Jun 08
yes we talk on mobile phone sometimes and she always text me. that is why our feelings never change.
@longbangod (1791)
• Philippines
4 Jun 08
All I can say is, LOVE is sweeter the second time around. Try to find and spend time with her. She could be your inspiration in your studies. She could help you with your business too! For me, if I love the girl I wont let her go away with me, no matter what. So just try to listen to your heart, If she really occupy a big space in there then give each other a second chance, but if its the other way around, you can talk to her heart to heart so she wont expect something from you.