Do you want your boyfriend older than you or younger than you ?

China
June 5, 2008 11:29pm CST
My boyfriend is 1 year younger than me , sometimes he is cute for me , and sometimes he can help me when i meet some difficult and i do not know how to do ! He can handle ! What about you ?you prefer younger one or older one ?
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@mentalward (14695)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Age is not the thing to look for. Maturity is. If you really enjoy being with someone, it should not matter what their age is. My husband is 8 years younger than I am, but we are perfect together. (It also helps that he looks older than I do! )
• China
6 Jun 08
haha, it seems that you have a perfect family , hope you happy in the future !
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@mentalward (14695)
• United States
6 Jun 08
Thank you so much! I wish you and your boyfriend much happiness as well.
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24 Apr 09
i have a boyfriend now and he is 10 years younger than me and he's so handsome inside and out!! we really get along together. despite the age gap, we are compatible in many ways. his ideas meet with mine and we never let the day pass with an unsolved problem. we always make it sure that whatever problems that exist, we talked about it and solved it. we listen to our hearts and mind always.there is God in the center of us.. in this way, we believe that we'll be together forever...
• United States
6 Jun 08
My personal belief is that I don't care what age my boyfriend is as long as we get along great together. I would prefer someone as close to my age as possible so that we can better relate to each other. I would never want to go more than two or three years either way. As you get older, age differences become less noticeable but at my age three years is a huge difference.
• China
10 Jun 08
yes, my sister say that, she can accept the age more or less older than her !
@chrissieatu (1033)
• China
6 Jun 08
Generally I prefer an older boyfriend. Whether it's true or not, at least to me older seems to be more mature. Or in other words, I don't mind my boyfriend is younger than me. But I need him to be mature enough to take good care of me.
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• China
10 Jun 08
hehe, older or younger are suitable for you !
@youless (97408)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Jun 08
I don't like to date with anyone who is younger than me. I need the feeling of a protection and care. And it seems young boys are not mature to give me these feelings. I love China
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• China
10 Jun 08
i think so before, but now , i have a BF younger than me!] and he take good care me !Not bad !
@jhaniz56 (41)
• Philippines
6 Jun 08
Hi wangchunxia, age is not important in a relationship as long as you both love and enjoy each others company. You just have to be mature in handling relationships. Goodluck!
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• China
10 Jun 08
Thanks for your response !
• Indonesia
6 Jun 08
i agree with mentalward that age is no matter in relationship but maturity. my girl friend is older than me but i can make sweet relationship with her.
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• China
6 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment , fratertelo !
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@SydneyJ (903)
• United States
29 Aug 11
I like this one guy who is about 9 months younger than me (it's kind of like were're together) but I typicalaly like older men because they tend to be more mature.
• China
29 Aug 11
9 months not so younge, i think age is good for you , hope you happy in the future
• China
29 Aug 11
only 9 months... i am three years older than my boyfriend!!!
@SydneyJ (903)
• United States
29 Aug 11
I know it's not reallly a big differencer but he's still younger
@Elixiress (3893)
8 Jun 08
I will not go out with someone that is more than a year younger than me, because as I am 17, someone being over a year young would be under 16 and that would be against the law and wrong. So I tend to choose people within a year of my age or older, but as I tend not to know many people older, they are usually about my age. My current boyfriend is 9 months younger than me, while my ex boyfriend was 3 months older.
• China
10 Jun 08
thanks for your comment !
• United States
29 Aug 11
It makes a bigger difference when you are younger. If you are 62 and your spouse is 55 it isn't that big of a deal, but if you are 20 and your partner is 13 or 14, it makes a huge difference.
@papasay (68)
• China
29 Aug 11
love is just a kind of sense,huh.. there's no connection whih age. how do u think?
• China
30 Aug 11
The same to you , love each other is enough, who cares the age.
@moneywinner (1865)
• Brazil
29 Aug 11
I prefer old guys, but it seems that I only attract the younger ones. I like the older ones, because the young ones are so imature and they usually have childish attitudes.
• China
29 Aug 11
hehe, you love old guys, bcz they can make you feel safe, ??/heheh
@marev0 (1)
• United States
21 Jul 08
omg! i have a younger boyfriend 7 years younger im 28 and he is 21.. i think we both are very immature, and well we've been together for a year and 4 months now.. i love him very much and i know he loves me too, but i want something serious now.. like start a life together it doesnt have to be with him, but i want someone 24/7 i dont wanna get married yet but i do wanna live with someone.. and make a life together.. and my b.f well.. i dont think he would want that! he's in the party stage omg!! i really dont know whats gonna happen!!! im confusedd,, im not getting any younger lol.. im just scared, im happy with him.. but i dont want to end up alone and old.. u know? aich............:(
• China
23 Jul 08
Thanks for your reply !
@rhane7315 (5672)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
it doesn't matter as long as we understand and love each other. just like what others say, age doesn't matter when it comes to love
• China
13 Jun 08
Thanks for your comment !
@gloreymay (882)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
I had boyfriend older than me at 3 years age gap. I prefer it than younger ones.
• China
13 Jun 08
Thanks for your commnet !
@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
8 Jun 08
i am a guy but i guess i'll respond to your discussion. almost all the girlfriends i had a relationship with were older than me. the oldest was 5 years older than me. it has its own advantages & disadvantages but it is true that you mature faster when you're with someone older. i also had a girlfriend who's 5 years younger than me. but since i was already used to having meaningful conversations, it didn't work out. my current girlfriend is just the same age as mine. i'm only 1 month older than her. & it's almost perfect. you can be both mature at times & you can be very childish, too.
• China
10 Jun 08
Thanks for your response !
• China
8 Jun 08
hi,chunxia,you are very lucky.although he is younger than you,he is so mature.i am very glad for you.and i agree with other friends that the age is not important,plus he is just i year younger than you.you must will be very happy in the future.maybe the man that a woman is looking for is just the man who has the traits of mature,composed,and braveness.so you are successful.
• China
10 Jun 08
Thanks for your response ! xiaojing !
• Northern Mariana Islands
8 Jun 08
well i never had a boyfriend younger than me or the same age as me. i'm not really into guys who are young
• China
10 Jun 08
hehe, you just like someone older than you !
• Philippines
6 Oct 11
age is not the matter in every relationship. .what matters most is the maturity of every person to understand each other and to keep the relationship strong. .
@bestie (1458)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
I want my boyfriend older than me.More matured and had lot of exerinces in life than me so he may serve as my adviser and so I can truly lean on him in times of difficulties.
• India
15 Jun 08
Frankly age doesnt matter that much, if the relationship works for you. I personally prefer older guys, but i have dated younger men too, well the thing is, as long as the relationship is going smooth, its okay, but i dont like guys shorter than me...younger or older
• Malaysia
15 Jun 08
for me age is just a number.so it isn't important thing to look for in finding someone to be with.it's all depends on how mature he is. as for me,personally;i prefer my boyfriend to older than me.but there's no problem with me if I've been destinies with someone who's younger as what important in relationship is love and maturity :)