have you ever said goodbye to someone you love?
June 8, 2008 8:59pm CST
There is this guy whom i love, but with the distance and lack of communication am feeling like i have to say goodbye to him; however part of me thinks ill never love another guy the way i love him. Have you ever had to say a heartfelt goodbye to someone you love?
11 Jun 08
yes i did!!!.. if it is needed. coz if i only one who was feel inlove and no return its useless!even it is hurt but i need to say goodbye to him or her,there is no such things to carry on.so maybe its also the sign that you are not meant to each other,maybe there is one who is the right for you.
11 Jun 08
i experienced the same thing happened to you.. we are in a long distance relationship and there came a point when our communication is lacking unlike what we had before.. then one day came w have to say our goodbyes.. we thought that it's the best way for the both of us.. i was really hurt when we broke up but i cant do anything anymore since we are really over and there's no more chance that we could be together again..
10 Jun 08
Well, I don't think I loved the guy deeply. But I cared. I said goodbye to him because I think he deserved to be loved deeper than I did. You know, goodbye's not always forever. You can say goodbye. But it doesn't mean you can't be together in the future. If he's not the one, then for sure, he's not the only one you'll love exceptionally.
9 Jun 08
I think this happens more often than we imagine and when it happens to us we might become confused. There is a song that says, "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with". It is a difficult situation but people are adaptable. As to whether someone could replace the love you feel for somebody who has disappeared from your life, I guess that would depend on you. I suspect that there will always be a special place in your heart that no one else could fill.