roommate is a thief.............

June 9, 2008 11:04pm CST
She is very well behaved.she is caring,loving BUT ,there is a big but.....She is a thief.She can take anything without taking permission...even money from wallet. Plz tell me how can I maintain distance with her?????????
6 responses
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
one question, how'd you know she was stealing from you? did you catch her red handed? hmnn.. i would have to agree with the others who posted that you kick her out. or request to be transfered. did it ever occur to you that she might be sick..like a kleptomaniac? that she doesnt really want to steal but its the illness thats making her do it..if thats the case then she needs help
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
10 Jun 08
kick her out and change all your locks.
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
10 Jun 08
Kick her out! Plan and simple. No questions asked here. If she is stealing from you there is no room for her in your pad. Why would you keep a person in your home that steals things? You are just setting yourself up. What are you going to do put everything of ours under lock and key? I don't suggest you keep this woman in your life as well. She is not a friend by any means.
@tessah (6617)
• United States
10 Jun 08
see if i can put this simply for you.. if shes STEALING from you, she isnt "well behaved, caring, or loving" kick her to the curb
@Odamashin (434)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
hi good afternoon!are you sure that she is the responsible for taking anything? i mean do you have some proofs? well if that so.. then your room mate is kleptomaniac.. its so hard to be with her or even confront her right?but no matter how hard it is, you have to confront her in a nice way and ask her why she's doing that?explain to her how it will affects her..that she will definitely lose her friends and worst she would be in jail..and she have to stop it right now.. for her own good..tell her that you're just concern as a friend. If she listens then, she considers you as her friend...if not, it's time to keep distance with her...do not leave important things in your room every time you're out.
• Indonesia
10 Jun 08
first, u have to proof it. then u must give her a second chance. after a few days, u can take action. kick she out or keep on it :D i have no idea right now, maybe later. thanks