what will be your reaction if the one you love says this to you??

Philippines
June 10, 2008 7:31pm CST
i am not ready yeat for any commitment but i do not want you to go...i want you to stay...
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6 responses
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
it's okay, i dont take it as a negative.. if i really love the person who said that, i will wait for the day the that he will tell me that he's already ready.. i dont want to rush on things and i dont want him to regret the decision he made just to please me.. waiting doesnt mean fading love, it only means greater love for the person you love..
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
i just love the way you say it...tenks for that thought... with your name, i assume your a filipina ayt???
@vanities (11387)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Jun 08
well what can i say then...this man is just using you or whatever ...and i guess that you two are living together? if thats the case then find another guy whose matured enough to commit for any thing..i mean responsibility and commitment...
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
we are nit living together..weboth came from a very serious relationship and both still hesitant to have another one again...but the thing is i love this guy and more more i fall deeper.... never did i told him that i like commitment coz i am very busy in my career ayt now...we still go out until now..i like to follow my rational being saying that i should stop hurting myself but how can i betray what i feel... when we are with each other the feeling is cloud9 just dont talk about commitment coz none of us will say a thing... when we last had a talk about this..we settle to just enjoy what we have and be ready for anything that would come...hays...(sigh)
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
that's so sweet. But i think in the end he will blame you that you've forced him to do any commitment...Means he don't love you totally..
@amy5588 (59)
• China
11 Jun 08
If you don't want him go,please say to him.
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
I have never been in a situation wherein someone told me this. I also have never been in a situation where I told this to someone. I do not think it is fair. Besides, who knows where it all leads to? There is no assurance that if the person is ready for commitment that he/she will choose you. It's so selfish of people to do this. Well, others decide to stay and I do respect such decision. They may have good reasons for staying.
@Cocoa33 (921)
• United States
11 Jun 08
i would leave. he can't have his cake and it eat too.