love marriage or arranged marriage

@harrish (126)
India
June 11, 2008 12:24am CST
what do u feel is better in life?.. love marriages or arranged one? why?... which category u belong to?...
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@pitstop (13054)
• India
11 Jun 08
To cut a long story short mine was an arranged love marriage. whazzat? Our families met in the usual arranged sort of way but we soon fell in love with each other.
@harrish (126)
• India
11 Jun 08
wow.. ur love story is nice:).. r u married?.. or yet to be married...
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@pitstop (13054)
• India
11 Jun 08
Happily married for 1 year!
• India
11 Jun 08
It all depends on the situation going in ur life,Both r acceptable in life.So everyone shud be prepare to accept any of these.Wht r u planning to do in ur life.
@harrish (126)
• India
11 Jun 08
hmmm.. as u said i'll accept what ever happens.. if i fall in love .. love marriage.. else... arranged:(....but no plans till now...
• India
13 Jun 08
whatever marriage you do Love should be there otherwise there is no point in getting married.In love marriege couple finds they are loving eachother so they should get marry and finally they marry but that marriage is successfull only if that love still continues life long. Samethings happens in arrange marriage after getting marriage your relation will glow if you start loving eachother and love continues life long. I find both are good nothing is bad in arrange. My parents wants me to get married in arrange marriage i am still happy about to know that.That depends on us how mature we are to take care of your responsibilities and secondly your parent will always choose a good partner for your life. All the best!!
• India
11 Jun 08
arrange marriages are better and successful. i belong to arrange marriage category
• China
11 Jun 08
though i am still too young to get married, marriage in my opinion is sacred. it involves a lot of things: sacrifice,respect, dignity, harmony, commitment, understanding, etc. i think only those people in love marriage can make these.
• India
13 Jun 08
hi friend arranged marriages is bust in life. thanks all the bust
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
Marriage is a lifetime association which involves a lot of things - sacrifice, love, understanding, commitment, considerateness, compromise, selflessness, sincerity (in all ramifications), truthfulness and trust among others so for me I would go for LOVE MARRIAGE... because if you love someone, you would do everything to make the relationship work... unlike arranged marriage... it is so hard when both parties doesn't have any feelings for each other.
• Philippines
11 Jun 08
It would depend on what culture you are in, personally, I prefer for a love marriage because you are the one who choose and decide to whom you are being married to, considering the fact that the person you are marrying would be the person you would share the rest of your life, I think one must decide on who is he/she would marry with.