how will you keep your relationship on fire after 10 years or more of marriage?

Excitement, implementation and loving makes the fire stays into a marriage. Yes there are up and downs in a marriage but one should not make this overpower their relationship. Children are a joy and should make a marriage comes apart. Always try something new inside the bedroom. Most of the time married couples becomes bore after children are born but you can make specials right there just as in the kitchen. Why should you be drag and dowdy now that you are married. No way. In the evening after preparing the dinner have a nice bath and refresh yourself before hubby comes home. Yes make he sees you the way he used to. Initiative is a very good thing. Improvise. Fire don't have to die. It is us who becomes complacent. Tease and love. Give yourself a day out on the town without the children. Even to have it right there at home. Yes send them over to a relative/close friend. The enjoyments are always there it is we who make problems take it away from us. All the best.