how will you keep your relationship on fire after 10 years or more of marriage?

June 11, 2008 10:01am CST
sometimes time and distance affect relationship, also the attention you gave to each other, having kids and working at the same time divert our thoughts on how we will make our relationship on fire. we should always put in mind that we need an open communication with each other in order to patch disagreements and to convey what we really want in the relationship.
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@kerriannc (4280)
• Jamaica
11 Jun 08
Excitement, implementation and loving makes the fire stays into a marriage. Yes there are up and downs in a marriage but one should not make this overpower their relationship. Children are a joy and should make a marriage comes apart. Always try something new inside the bedroom. Most of the time married couples becomes bore after children are born but you can make specials right there just as in the kitchen. Why should you be drag and dowdy now that you are married. No way. In the evening after preparing the dinner have a nice bath and refresh yourself before hubby comes home. Yes make he sees you the way he used to. Initiative is a very good thing. Improvise. Fire don't have to die. It is us who becomes complacent. Tease and love. Give yourself a day out on the town without the children. Even to have it right there at home. Yes send them over to a relative/close friend. The enjoyments are always there it is we who make problems take it away from us. All the best.
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• Philippines
11 Jun 08
thanks, but sometimes i feel guilt when i left my kids and enjoy without them.