what's the worst rumor/gossip you ever heard about you?.

*sigh* - Dignity comes not from control, but from understanding who you are and taking your rightful place in the world.
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Philippines
June 12, 2008 1:35am CST
when I decided to live with my father, (for some good reasons).there's lots of rumors I've heard about me that at first made me cry and it hurts so badly. the worst one would be, I leave my family because I don't want to help them, I am sick and tired of them. that I hate them, and that I don't love them at all. what I hate about it was, it was being spread by my auntie, who is somewhat close to me. it hurts me a lot, because it wasn't true at all.. but I can't speak up..I realized that I, people who are closer to me, and God knows the truth..so why give a damn?.. I know that my mom and my siblings knows how much I love them, and that I am happy whenever I'm with them. but I really have to do this for my dad also..I know how sad he was whenever he's alone. and I wanted to repay him for whatever mistakes I've done to him that's why I've decided to live with my dad.(I don't know the other term for leaving, because I really don't what to use that word on what I've done.) for the person who spread that rumor, I really wanted to kick her a$$ and to give her a lesson on what she have done.. well, my other relatives told me that they know the truth and will never believe on what my auntie said about me. so I just ignore it, and just let her spread whatever sh**ty things she wanted to tell about me.. well, I know that she's happy doing that so, then I will just let her.I DON'T CARE FOR I KNOW WHO I AM..well, TRUTH WILL PREVAIL.. how about you?.. have you heard some gossip about you that affects your dignity?
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33 responses
@cheenlly (3485)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
it is really painful when gossip cames from your own blood especially if it the gossip is spread by your mother. This case refers to me. I was really deep hurten and can't believe my own mother would spread such gossip which is not true. Oh well eversince i was born we are not really close and she really makes me feel like i am unwanted child. Yours is kinda ok than mine. it really makes me cry everytime i feel the pain. I just dont know why she is like that to me.
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
I feel sorry for you. your case is too painful than mine.. our mother should always protect us from whatever pain we will feel, but in your case, your mom is actually the reason for your griefs. have you ask your mom on why she's doing that to you, on why she do have that kind of treatment upon you?.. maybe you two need to talk. I know how hurt are you every time your mom spread rumors about you, but you two can solve the problem. I am praying and hoping this matter wills solve..
@beybes08 (125)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
The worst rumour I've ever heard was that I was a sl*t. No offense. I kind of got in a mix-up with a boyfriend then and his ex and his ex kept creating rumours. She was really good at it, so the rumour really did go around! I was so humiliated and upset at the same time. I don't really let myself get affected by petty things like that, but I couldn't help it. Everyone heard, even my parents and they were so surprised and disappointed that I'd be in a situation were that could happen to me.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
your ex's girlfriend spread that rumor?.. Oh! maybe she's the one who is a sl*t.. you should give her a lesson for that.. you should talk to your parents on why that girl was spreading rumor about you which isn't true at all.. your parents might help you and I believe that will give you the undying support and love.. they deserve to know that truth dear. I know that it sometimes affects you, and I know the feeling.. feeling of lots people were looking at you just because of that damn thing.. but, I know that there's lot of people who loves you so much, that no matter what rumor is that, they'll be willing to support you and wouldn't believe in that kind of pity things that your damn ex's girlfriend have done to you.. fight!fight!girl! kick her damn a$$!
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@selece (2357)
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
I guess the worst one was when a stupid person spread a rumor about me using "someone" to get close to a girl. This "someone" was the bestfriend of the girl i liked. But then again, I had no intention to use her or so, we were close friends. Really close ones, but not everyone knew about that. Although she believed me that I had no bad intentions, she somehow moved away from me to avoid any more harsh rumors. That wasn't cool since I almost lost the friendship. Screw those people who wanted to ruin everything. You see, we can't actually please everyone. In one way or so, there would always be people who get disappointed or displeased with the decisions we make. Decisions are hard to make and earning respect of others for these decisions is downright harder. In your case, it was the cause for having such rumors/gossips about you. It's sad that the one who actually spread them is someone you know and close to you. It's possible that she did that because she is unhappy with what you decided. But that doesn't make it right, spreading untrue information about someone would never be right. We all have our reasons and beliefs and we stand firmly for those things, yet we don't always get respected for that. It's such a shame. I think people like those shouldn't be given much attention, for as long as we know who we really are and stand up for ourselves, no one is accountable enough to ruin our worth as a person. I'm glad when you said "I DON'T CARE FOR I KNOW WHO I AM"... That is really true and I admire such courage. Stand up for who you are and don't mind what other people think of you. They'll get what they deserve in due time.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
see.., because of that f**in rumor, your friendship with her got affected. damn those people who doesn't think first before they've done such kind of actions. they are actually stupid for doing that so.. well, my other relatives told me that from the moment I've finish my college insecurities with me kill her. well, I guess she doesn't want to see me reach my goals, and to be successful. she doesn't want others to be happy, that's why she's doing that thing. it's her forte you know?.. to ruin other people's dignity.. too bad, I didn't see that attitude before we got too close.. well, there's no cure for insecurities, even nail biting won't help. she will never see me crying over those petty things she have done.. well, I'll be just quiet for now.. soon, I'll be the one who'll ruin her life.(LOL. am i so mean?)..well, the hell with them.. I wouldn't give any single damn with their stupidities.. anyway..thank you so much for that wonderful encouragement.
@selece (2357)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
Haha. To hell with them! Agree hehe! You're not being mean, you sound so infuriated that I think you could squeeze her head off. Hehe. But that's ok, people who do harsh things deserve harsh punishments? Hehe. I can totally relate with you. Your welcome and goodluck to all your endeavors. ^^
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
thank you so much.. well, I don't want to hope for their failures and I don't want to get revenge also.. well, let us say, that I will just let them feel how I felt with the things that they've done to me.. LOL.
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• United States
12 Jun 08
When I was an 8th grader in school, my friend came up to me and asked me how I could do it and I asked her what she was talking about and she said that she heard I was pregnant and was going to get an abortion. I told her that was crazy, (I was still a virgin,) and I asked her who told her that and she told me our History teacher. He later became the High School Counselor! Don't think I ever told him anything I was having trouble with!
• Philippines
12 Jun 08
what the f**K?...that was horrible!.. and now she's your high school counselor?, is she mad at you? because why will she spread those things which is untrue?.. oh! I can't believe that a teacher will spread such things with regards to her student..tsk.tsk.tsk. bad!
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• United States
12 Jun 08
Actually, that teacher was a man and come-to-find-out, he had seen me at a rodeo riding a horse with a guy and he made up the story from that. Needless to say, what respect I had for him as a teacher, I didn't have anymore and really didn't want my friends to talk to him about anything when he was a counselor.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
does she like you?.. because why the heck will he make a gossip about you just by seeing you two riding a horse?.. that was kinda weird..
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Someone told me that there's a friend of mine told her that i lost my virginity and always hook up with my current bf. wtf? I feel like smacking whoever told this guy about this so not true story. Haih;|
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@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Gurl*
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
LOL. that person is so stupid to spread such kind of rumor..lOL.
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
16 Jun 08
Yeah, she is stupid. Maybe she's jealous cause not dating with someone like i do^^
@karazu (49)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
it was when i was in 2nd or 3rd yr high school that my own cousin is spreading a rumor that i was dating 12 yr old! Holy Sh*t!! i hated her for that. The rumor spread around the campus and as the days passed by i felt i was getting smaller. i didnt want other people to see me!. But i didnt let that bring me down. plus i had to go to school so i really had no choice. haha!... well, the patience payed off... i was off the hook after i was seen with the so called 12 yr old, who turn out, we were at the same age. i didnt really know why there is a gossip that she's only 12 yrs old. it was probably because she was still in elementary that time and i was in high school. that was because she had to stop going to school. well, everything turn out ok. i didnt have to punch anyone! haha!
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
LOL. so you like her?.. anyway , your cousin was so stupid to spread that rumor without investigating first. LOL. maybe also like that girl.
@karazu (49)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
i did... but i was still young back then, those were the puppy love kindda days... we dated and were together for a few months, then she left for malaysia.Ü
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
i see.. at least you two had been together, even for a months..
@gmakesmoney (2923)
• United States
13 Jun 08
A few weeks ago I heard that I was working the streets in my hometown and that someone saw me "at work" on the hooker street that same night. Umm... I live 1,500 miles away from my hometown so that one sure confused me. Turns out my ex's, girlfriend's cousin who used to be a close friend of mine told my ex that in order for him to think I was doing something dirty and not want me anymore. Thing is, everyone forgot to consult me. I wasn't even aware of the apparent fact that A) I want my ex and B) I'm a hooker. I didn't get mad I laughed because I rarely even leave my apartment other than to run errands and yet all of a sudden I'm walking the streets on the other side of the country, lol. What upset me was that my ex believed it and spread the rumor throughout his family. Our families have been best friends for generations so that one spread like wildfire. I felt hurt that he would think something like that of me after 12 years of knowning one another and my being there for him throughout the years despite us not being together. His girlfriend is psycho and has told the world how I want to "steal her man". I think she's just paranoid because she's the one who did the stealing while we were making wedding plans years ago and she thinks it will come back around. He and I live nowhere near each other and haven't seen each other in 8 years. I've told him a million in one times that we're over so I don't know what her malfunction is but yeah, that was a pretty hurtful rumor in ways.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
I feel your pain.. with that lies it drains all the happiness of a loving heart. I don't know what to say, but I guess you should just move on and be strong with what you ex have done. I know that you love him so much, he's to stupid to believe in that rumor without asking you first. and yes you are right, with the 12 years of your relationship, he never thinks of believing you.. how sad it was.. anyway, karma will get into the person who spread that rumor. f**k those people!.. sorry , but i hope that someone will also do that to them.
• United States
13 Jun 08
Thanks! I did get over it, he's stupid and if he wants to believe lies then good for him. People will always talk and make stuff up, life is just like that.
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
yup..and life is too short too ways on such stupid things..
@ambkeb (782)
• United States
12 Jun 08
WOW! Your aunt sounds like a real peice of work...Im sorry she has put you through that. I would have to say that rumor that has most effected me was the one when I was a senior in High School. I was dating my best friends older brother..Weird I know...we all practically grown up together. And I had dated him off and on since probably my freshman year. But my friend came up to one day at school and slapped me. I had broken up with her brother after a big fight the night before. She did not talk to me for days after the slap. But I eventually got her to talk to me and come to find out her brother told her that I was pregnant and wanted him or their family to have anything to do with the baby and that was why I broke up with him. The few days of her not talking to me she had told just about everyone and so everyone was not happy with me. I wasnt pregnant, and I would NEVER tell him or his family that. I love them all dearly. But it hurt that she would actually think I would do that to anyone. I would never take a baby from their father if he wanted something to do with it.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
what?!?!? she slapped you without asking first if its true or not?.. f**k your ex boyfriend! how dare him to do that to you.. karma will get in him..good thing you broke up with that damn man!(actually he doesn't deserve to be called that way..) well, past is past and for you know who you are, just forget about that damn thing.. don't let that get into your nerves honey..
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@ambkeb (782)
• United States
13 Jun 08
HAHAHAHA Thanks for that! LOL We are all actually still really good friends...even me and her brother. So it all worked out in the end. I found out later that he was just upset how everything ended, sometime during the argument I had said that I never wanted to see him again. Just one of those things you say when your angry, and because I had said that I guess his way of thinking was if he never got to see me he didnt want anyone else to see me either. He later apologized and we talked it through. So it all worked itself out in the end. Have a great weekend.
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
what?!?!?! that surprise me.. If I am into your situation, it will be very hard for me to bring back our friendship. well, I guess two thumbs up for the both of you guys.. and with the guy, I guess, I don't have nothing to say..LOL.
• Indonesia
12 Jun 08
the worst rumor I have ever heard about myself was that I was having a relationship with a certain lecturer in university. darn it. I was inside the same toilet room overheard it. and later the whole class found out that the person herself (who spread the gossip) was in fact the real girlfriend, we found out when they later broke up. shame on her!
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
LOL.. sorry for laughing with your story. well, maybe she was just jealous over you.. but that is not so right!.. and there, karma gets in her.. well, I guess she deserves what had happened with their relationship.
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• Indonesia
13 Jun 08
LOL. I have the same thought with you. When I found out the fact when they broke up, it suddenly hit me why she had become so rude back then. I was consulting my final university project for the final exam back then with that lecturer, nothing else, and I think she might have gotten too paranoid in things. after all, after they broke up, the lecturer walked with another girl and that wasn't me! LOL.
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
LOL. maybe she's just jealous over you.. she's a freak.LOL.
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
19 Jun 08
There is a saying that goes like this: "Those who mind do not matter,and those who matter do not mind!" It is tough to stand up in the face of gossip, but you will be a better person for it! I just do not understand why people believe what they hear! If you moved in with your dad, it was for a good reason! It is only too bad that so many youth have to choose with whom to live, as divorce is so prevalent in today's society!
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• Philippines
20 Jun 08
yeah, I agree with you.. and I don't care about them, for what I know what's the truth. the hell with them.
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@olivemai (4738)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Good for you! Take care!
@SomeCowgirl (32273)
• United States
12 Jun 08
My grandmother loves to gossip. She will gossip about anything. When I first started dating my fiance , she told people in my family (whom all I am not sure) that I was dating two people. At the time, I worked 22 hour shifts and was hardly able to see my fiance. When I let my gay best friend stay with me she basically said that he was not gay. My uncle one time called my mother and told her that she needed to get in contact with me as I may have a viral disease. The way he said it I am not sure, but I do know that indefinitely he mentioned it on the sole fact that an ex boyfriend had come around looking for me. I was upset, and confused so in some point I believed that I had a viral disease, i've never slept with this guy... I was saving it. Needless to say, my contact with family is very limited as a few members enjoy spreading rumors. I am sorry that this has happened to you and I hope that it does not effect you too much, sadly you may become hardened by it and in turn, isolate yourself from family. Best of luck to you, Have a Great day.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
oh what's new.. most of the old people now a days were fun of making gossips.. I don't know but they are happy with what they are doing.. well, maybe because, they don't have much to do aside from spreading gossip. may I ask on what is a viral disease? (sorry, I haven't heard about it..) well, I don't have any contacts with my relatives (and I don't want to..the hell..) but with my family, especially my siblings, I always go to our house to visit them.. there, that's the proof that I really love them so much, and that I always wanted to be with them..with my mom, even though we're not in good terms right now, and I know that she's mad with what I've done, I always text her and tell her my condition.. good luck to you also, and just don't waste time with such kind of people.. don't let them get into your nerves..
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• Philippines
16 Jun 08
oh yeah..that's the right thing to do..just stay away from those person who causes damage on you.
• United States
26 Sep 08
check out my discussion on Gossip. You go girl....
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• Philippines
29 Sep 08
alright!
@rangics (1335)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
Mine was that I got pregnant and had an abortion...! My God. I am honestly against abortion and why should I do that to myself?! Haler?. Some people just can't get enough of you..because of their insecurities for sure...Can't they just mind their own business then?. sigh! :(
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
yeah. haler to them!, well, there's no cure for insecurities, and let them drool over you!
@modstar (9615)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
The worst would the rumor where i was told that i was the reason of the break up of a girl whom i date only once. I was told by a friend that the guy was devastated because he's was dumped after 5 years of solid relationship with the girl i dated. Though the girl made a mistake because she lied to me because when we dated, she's still with the guy.
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• Philippines
23 Sep 08
base on what you've wrote, I guess that it's not your fault. it's the woman's fault, for she lied to you, and dated you even if she still with her bf. just don't be bother about it..
@horsesrule (1962)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I am sorry, that kind of thing does hurt. The worst thing that I ever heard about myself was gossip that ran through the church that my ex-husband and I were going to and it was that I left him (my ex-husband) for another man and that I cheated on him throughout our entire marriage and that I would sleep with anyone. I must say,that was all news to me!! Cuz I had no idea of all that about myself! HA, my ex-husband was such a jerk and he didn't know the truth from a fence post. So many people turned their backs on me at the church and that hurt so much cuz I had been going there for ten years, years before I had stupidly re-married my ex. But I have to say the same as you do, the truth will prevail and I know who I am and it isn't who that jerk says I am either!
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• Philippines
30 Jun 08
yeah. I agree with you. well, I pity your ex husband for spreading such kind of rumor, and of course, those people who believe are as jerk as your ex husband.
@ritchel (890)
• Philippines
29 Jun 08
Just want to ask you, is your mom and dad separated? Anyways, my answer to your question is me having a baby or already have a family. That was so far the rumor i've heard about myself which is not very true. But i am just happen because truth prevails they have found out that i am really single.
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• Philippines
30 Jun 08
yes. they were separated when I was in high school. It happened to me also.. since only few knows that I am staying with my dad. there's lot of speculations that I already got pregnant or already committed to my boyfriend. well, it isn't true.. but if it was, well, I am so proud to be.
@jcj_111776 (3221)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
That's the right attitude, charly. .Don't give her the satisfaction that whatever she's spreading has an effect on you. People who spreads ugly rumors will certainly reap what they sow. As you have said so yourself, your other relatives doesn't believe her. So, your aunt is just damaging her own reputation and credibility. As for my case, I was the target of an ugly rumor started by my nasty college classmates. Actually, it was me and my bestfriend who were their favorite targets. It was known to them that we have boyfriends and I don't know, maybe they were goaded by their jealousy. So they came up with a story and their "PREDICTION" was that before we reach our graduation, one of us, or most probably the two of us, will end up pregnant. They were actually so sure of it. My bestfriend and I were naturally hurt, but we didn't give them the satisfaction of letting them see that we were hurt. We just showed them that we were unaffected by their gossip. This happened when we were all freshmen. As it turned out, by our 2nd year, two of those rumor starters did end up pregnant. One of them wasn't able to graduate. As for me and my bestfriend, we graduated with a still flat tummy. Very not pregnant at all! So, you see, what goes around, comes around. Someday, whatever harmful words your aunt has been spreading around, will ultimately come back to hound her.
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
LOL. our world has lots of mean girls. anyway, yeah, I agree with you.. well, I guess, their prediction came true..but to them.. not to you and to your best friend.LOL. congratulations, and good luck in every thing that you will do..
@Gesusdid (1683)
• United States
13 Jun 08
i think the worst about me was that it was a gay rumor simply becuase it was some high school mess, so everyone had rumors about them , some how i got involed , i didnt let it bother one bit so i kept it moving and minded my own buisness
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
LOL. prove to them that you are not a guy. (just kidding..)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
Good day. I never heard any rumor against me because I ignore them. I don't let people specially those who meant nothing to me dictate my mood. I also don't want to waste my time listening to their gossip about me or about other people as well. I simply ignore them. People would say good or bad things about people specially when they have a motive to do so, what's more important is to listen to yourself and be honest about it. Other can tell truth or lies about you, you are the only one that can always tell the truth about yourself. Better listen to yourself than to other people.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
that's true.. the hell I care with them.. I keep motivated on what they are doing. and it wouldn't affect me now.
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
Owwwwwww!!! that toooooo bad.... you should kick her *!ss wahahahah just joking. It feels bad when you hear rumors about you and even its not true. Just ignore it as long as you know what your doing then dont care a bit with the gossip. It will gone soon.
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• Philippines
13 Jun 08
yeah, I know now how to handle her stupidity.LOL.