I am confused.

love - a couple
China
June 13, 2008 3:34am CST
I know a girl for 4 years.Actually,she is my classmate in our university.When I was a freshman,I have a favorable impression about her.But she likes another man and she was rejected by that guy who I do not like. Then after 1 year,she fell in love with another bad guy who I also do not like. And now she is rejected again and the guy do not love her any more. I think she is a pity.Now I don't know if I love her and don't kown my feeling. We will graduate soon,and will not see each other for a long time.Maybe it is the last time for me to meet her. But I dare not to show my heart. Because I am confused about our relationship. Could you help me,please? Thank you.
3 responses
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
13 Jun 08
uh, well I'm kinda confused with your status with the girl as well. Are you just classmates? or are you friends as well? If you really like someone then you wouldn't mind their flaws...accept them for what they are, accept what they've been through. ehrm, just you know, be sure of what you really feel about that girl/
• China
23 Jun 08
We are friends,but now I think we are just to be friends. I don't love her because what she has done about love is not what I like.Maybe I like her outside,not all of her. Thank you for your advice so much.
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
I see...well at least your sure of how you feel about the girl.
@gtdonna (1738)
13 Jun 08
Before you be quick to judge her as a pity, how abotu really sitting and thinking about this. Could it be that she was with these bad boys just to grab your attention adn show you that she can get another guy because you don't seems to be showing much interest in her. Some women do things just for attention and she could be trying to get yours...I'd say, go up to her and tell her that you really like her but you do not like what she is doing to herself throwing herself behind these guys who keep dumping her. A bold move I know, but you may be surprised at ehr response and reaction.
• China
29 Jun 08
Maybe she does not care about me,we both are diffrent kind of people.I am traditional. We have left our university,but I have not said anything to her and I have not regret. Thank you for yuor advice.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
13 Jun 08
Friend she is a flirt (sorry to say this), do not bother for her and carry on with your career. Such females will hinder your growth and give only pains in life.
• China
23 Jun 08
Thank you for your advice.Actually,I don't really kown her,such as what kind of girl she really is.Maybe she do not suit for me. We will leave from our university the day after tomorrow. I just decide to do what comes naturally. Thank you so much.