Your worst relationship
June 13, 2008 7:17am CST
Share with me the worst relationship that you've been in. Here are a few questions that will guide you in sharing your experience: - What made it the worst? - What happened? Did he/she cheat on you? - Did he/she ask for your money all the time? - Did you really love him/her? - When did this happen? How old were you? - Who broke up with whom? - So how would you react if you saw or bumped into him/her? - Any advice for the others that you'd like to share? Feels good to get it out of your chest, right?
• United States
13 Jun 08
My worst relationship, I would have to say is the one I had with the mad that I married. What made it worst I believe that being in the relationship and planning the wedding and getting married brought me to forget all about or to even think of the things that I truly cared for about and where I wanted to be in life. I think once in the marriage and miserable, I could finally see that. I had lost all touch with any friends, lost any ambition that I had to go back to school....There were many problems, mostly about money cause he was unemployed the whole marriage. That of course made him depressed, so along with him he brought me down as well constantly. Therefore I don't believe there was one point that I was happy in the marriage. The money problem was the main problem, however that led too many more smaller problems....I didn't make enough money, he would never ask for money because he knew we didn't have enough. So he decided to use it without asking, and when there wasn't any more money in the bank he'd use the credit cards. Hundred dollars at a time....I see him now and then. But only if I ask him to watch the dog and cat. I never ran into him otherwise. Though I wouldn't really like it just because the site of him kinda disgusts me....I met him when I was 21 years old. I ended up finally leaving him when I was 25 years old....Some advice, listen to your gut feeling and act on it. If I had, I would never had married this guy......Actually thinking about it kinda makes me depresseed. Because I wasted so much time with this person. I've just decided to start college this coming fall and I feel that I am way behind than I really should be.
• Brunei Darussalam
14 Jun 08
Wow, yea sometimes guys are useless. They expect us to feed them when they were the ones who was supposed to look after us! Good for you that you're not with him anymore. Yea, and may I add a lil something as advice: Look for a guy who has cash. Not that we're materialistic, it's just a point to keep ourselves safe from economy problems! Believe me! Thank you for sharing!