have you ever loved someone you hate?

Indonesia
June 14, 2008 9:06am CST
i haven't. usually i hate someone i love just kidding. my "hate" doesn't have a negative meaning. what about you?
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@nikeisha (21)
• Trinidad And Tobago
17 Jun 08
life is so funny that sometimes you know someone for while and it's not that you really hate them because hate is a strong word but dislike something about that person and eventually you can grow to like that person and after asks what the hell happen?
• Indonesia
20 Jun 08
yes, that happens sometimes. thx for responding
@ayessa (1586)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Hmm... I had this friend whom before I met was we are like dogs and cats that always fight. Then we became friends until such time we started to fall for one another. After the relationship we hated each other again then came time that we had a talk and we became friends again. So I guess I had love whom I hate and hate again then love him again now.
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
hi ayessa, that's a great experience . i can imagine a love story can be that dynamic. thx for responding
• United States
17 Jun 08
i think a lot of people will agree with me that family can fall into this role a lot.. lol.. a relative treat you horrible so you hate them but still care for them
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
that's true . sometimes we hate a relative of us but we can always account on each other. thx for responding
@diansinta (7554)
• Indonesia
16 Jun 08
Hi Sutanhartono, I have. Same like the song lyric "...when love and hate collide.." I can't easily falling in love with some one, but when i do, i hope the person only love me like i love him only. Turn out, my ex husband choose to be with other woman. sad really. then i decided to ask for a devorce, before i move to Bali island. After a dreatful devorce that hurt every body, i feel relieve. Some old says that love your self first then the second is somebody else. It is sound selfish, but in my situation it mater. I don't wanna life the rest of my life in sufer. I just want to be in peace, even to let go the one i love.
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
hi, dian sinta... i'm so sorry to hear about that. that's so kind of you to share it to us. i'm glad you felt relieve and i think you're ok now. that's right. you don't need to live the rest of your life in suffer. nobody need to do that. well, there is another saying, "love others as if you love yourself". thx for being here and responding
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• India
15 Jun 08
Yeah me too, i never loved or even liked some1 i hate. Yeah without any negative meaning. I dont think thats possible, just in feww cases, but i rather know that person, before loving or disliking them...so its already based.
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
well, that very rarely happens, but some people experienced that kind of love. thx for responding
@nihonjin (22)
• Japan
14 Jun 08
hmm a very difficult question but havent passed through sittuation yet man sorry
• Indonesia
17 Jun 08
that's good for you. nobody have to undergo the paradoxical love. thx for responding