I miss him so much

@gxnfly (1148)
China
June 15, 2008 4:47am CST
It's Sunday today,and I'm still at work.We don't have regular weekends.We have only four days of break in a month,but you can decide the break up to your choice.I've been working for more than a week,and haven't take a break. I want to save the break when my boyfriend is back from work so that we can have more time together. Do you and your partner live together?Although we live together,he is away most of the year.He's away for about a month,then gets back,and in 2 or 3 days,he has to get started for another city again.That really bothers me sometimes,but now I pretty much get used it.
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@subha12 (18462)
• India
16 Jun 08
i can understand your situation right now. keep those braeks for your Bf to come. i am not into any realtionship. so i do not have this problem. its very sad that he can't stay with you long. all the best to you.
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• China
16 Jun 08
i can understand you completely. just one year ago,i had been away from my ex bf.so much i missed him. everything about him fulfilled my heart. also because of the distant,we broke up. so i hope that u wont be bothered by it. best wishes.
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@chej18 (915)
• United States
15 Jun 08
I understand what you feel.I miss my husband also if his working or if i am not talking to him.But then when i am talking to him that lot i feel like got to much.
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@littleowl (7157)
15 Jun 08
Hi gxnfly-I can understand how you must feel I have a similsr relationship with mypartner yet we dont live together-he has a horse yard about 2hrs away from me yet it he still comes to see me sometimes though it is only two or three times amonth or may be a little more-those times are so precious but they go so quickly and when he is gone I miss him so much yet like you have got used to it-it bothers me but he has to look after his yard-I hope this has helped comfort you a little knowing that there is someone else like yourself out here-plus I should expect a lot of other people in a similar situation-your friend littleowl
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@gemini_rose (16194)
15 Jun 08
It must be really hard to be away for so long from someone that you love. I do not have this problem as I am married and living with my hubby and his job does not take him far from home. So we do not have to be seperated.
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@checapricorn (16072)
• United States
15 Jun 08
Hi gxnfly, Fortunately, my hubby and I are living together and I am happy about that. I know how it feels when you are aways from your loved ones. But, I hope someday you will be able to live together without him going far, I mean, I hope he will find a job close to where you live! Cheers!
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@suhascg (227)
• Australia
15 Jun 08
hi, just by reading your discussion i can feel how much u miss your boyfriend.. what job is that anyway where u get only 4 days off in a month?? i wish you spend some quality time with your boyfriend after he gets back.. tc and have fun..
@Krisaea (114)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
Hi! I can feel what you feel. I had been to that feeling before but i tried to cope up with it. I keep myself busy. I don't want to think of him anymore. Anyways, communication is very important to keep each other. Maybe you both can find a way for this solution. If the job rquires him to move far , then how about your job? you think you can follow him? Krisaea
@jer31558 (3684)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Though you may get used to being apart, doesn't mean that you feel good about it. Are you able to talk on the phone or over the computer?
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Just be patient. Everything will change soon. You're not forever like that. You might not know he'll get another job or he might get promoted with a different type of work. You'll never know. Just savor every moment when you're with him. Time will come and you'll be together always.
• China
17 Jun 08
I think you should be more initiative to talk with your bf ,which would avoid a bad result that impress you all.
• India
16 Jun 08
I pity on you,We can starve for one meal or one day without taking anything but cannot leave each other for long time.I stay with spouse and mostly I try to be with her
@lfq1986 (14)
• China
16 Jun 08
My girlfriend and I are not together either. She is a junior year student of a medical college, while I am a senior year college student in another city. I know exactly how you feel. It's hard for me to live without her by myside. So I hope that you and your boyfriend will be together soon.
• United States
16 Jun 08
Hi gxnfly, I know how you feel.I would still remember the first time we met, through the internet. He lives in a different place and I live in a different place too. Thus, all we do to communicate is through the net, or mobile phone, but it wasn't enough. Afterwards, I decided to leave my job (webmaster in a small company), and do a freelance work instead (yup, I am now a freelance webmaster). Then, I traveled to his place, now we're living together. Ok, here's what you do when he comes back. Think of something that both of you love together like going to the beach or something. Or you could give him a little surprise party (but just for both of you). Or cook something (even if your not good at it). Or just anything sweet that would make him feel that you missed him much. Well, even if we're leaving together, we still give some little surprises (like he gives me a rose, i gave him a chocolate cake)
@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
16 Jun 08
Looks like u are missing your bf alot and u are sacrificing alot for him.. I really hope that he can understand wat u are doing for him and that he will appreciate it.. NO matter how tired and sick u are of work, u still dun wanna take a break, instead u wanna wait for him to come home and make your off days worthwhile.. What can i say?? Except that u really love your bf alot alot..
• Indonesia
16 Jun 08
awwhh.... gxnfly, i hope your bf can get a better job that doesnt require him to be parted with you that long!! My boyfriend and i have been talking about living together, but being asian living in asian country... It's a good thing that we live in a walking distance. Or i'm gonna miss him terribly just like you miss your bf. *hugs*
• China
16 Jun 08
I really understand you because I am kind of doing the same-type job as you do, only 4 days off per month. I really feel most of my time is occupied and can't afford to do many things I wanna do. You situation is even more severe because you and you boyfriend are both so occupied. I think the only thing you can do is to stay with him when he is around as much as possible. Life is a struggle.
@nalawon (22)
• China
16 Jun 08
poor gxnfly! there are pretty many couples around me have the same situation like you do. and most of them are in there 20's. it's obvious that ppl at this age are busy for work, for me, i work for more than 75 hrs per week. too busy to find a galfrd! am i poorer than you? lol doesn't matter. dont worry! you two at least have some days together, though not enough, but it's better than nothing----like me. hehe..
@dhangski (3194)
• Philippines
15 Jun 08
You really do miss your boyfriend so much. I can sense it. Well, at least you get to see him for at least 2 or 3 days. Unlike me, my husband has been away for about a year and a half and probably will be another 2 years. He works in Canada right now, and he had to stay there for 2 years so he can apply for permanent residency. But he just shifted job and his contract will be another 2 years. But we see to it that we talk over the messenger everyday. But I really do miss his presence each passing day.I do understand our situation because it is for our future.