sister sleeping with your man

Ack. That's horrible. I might get a knife and stab both of them. Hahahahaha. :D Nah, I'm just kidding. xD But really. That could be the worse feeling in the world. I think the pain would never go away.

Well first of all - get rid of the boyfriend! Once a cheat, always a cheat. Now for the sister, that will take a lot of time to forgive her. How can a sister do that to another. She obviously has a lot of personal problems to have done that to you. Keep your distance from her for a long time and let her be the one to realize what she's done to you. Pray for God to help you through it.

Well I can not even imagine my sister sleeping with my boyfriend. But if that were ever to happen to me, there would be no such thing as repairing the relationship. The boyfriend would be an ex so fast it would make your head spin, and as for my sister, that relationship would also be over. This would be a total betrayal on her part, of all the men in the world, why would she mess with mine!

If I ever had a sister sleep with my fiance. I would kick him to the curb as well as my sister. That is just not cool and it would not fly with me. They are both in the wrong for what they did. Remember it takes two to tango and they are both equally to blame. I honestly don't know why a sister would do that to you and betray you like that. That is just horrible.

it is difficult to keep a good relationship with yours, since it happened, it is timing, no other best way to repair it. western people is very open I heard before, but it still can not accepted in life, right? I think the better way is to stop them first and then easy yourself later.

It is the ultimate betrayal, but you can get through it no matter if you keep the relationship with your sister or not. When it comes to certain things in life--we were never created to handled them on our own. I relieve stresses, heavy loads, and broken relationships in prayer daily. If you are looking within yourself to forgive and heal--it will never happen because we are human and certain things we just won't understand. I asked myself the same questions when it happened to me, but I depended on God to help me see past the hurt and pain that was so deep in my heart. I hated her and him for a long time, but the only one it hurt was me in the long run. I learn to allow what people do to me make me better and not bitter toward life and people because if you look through life like you looked at past situation in your life--you'll miss the great things that life still has in store for you. You'll see one day, but don't allow something like that to change the rest of your life for the worse. We go through things for reasons and its usually to help someone else, so help someone else get over their hurt and pain--it will help you in the process. johnson3

Wow that would be a hard thing to accept, I am not sure I can handle that, to me that would be the worst betrayal ever, I think I would cut my sister and man out of my life...

Hmmn..kind a hard, yes, but it needs time to heal the pain. How could your sister do that. . .