How Does It Make A Man Feel When A Woman Cries In Front Of Him ?

United States
June 16, 2008 3:45pm CST
For a man,how does a man feel when a woman cries in front of him ? And for a woman,how does your husband or boyfriend react when you cry in front of him ? I believe that when a woman cries in front of a man it reaches his very soul.I believe that a man hates it when his girlfriend or wife cries,I believe that a man will almost trip over his own feet to get her to stop crying and even will apoligize for things that are not his fault just to get her to stop.I believe that a womans crying in front of a man is not a weakness but rather a womans strength,I believe that a womans crying is so powerful to get a man to do the things you want him to do that arguing will never accomplish.I believe that when a woman argues with her husband to get him to do something that it just breeds more bitterness and more bitterness towards eachother and accomplishes nothing.I believe that a womans tears can bring about more help,more togetherness,more love,more support from a man.So woman have a great big cry in front of your man if you want to move him in a way to get him to do something that you can't get him to do by arguing.Turn on the faucet and show him your good heart and let the real you come out.Cry without bitterness,cry without acusing or blaming,cry without anger.Show him your good heart through your crying.Let him know that you are a good person just wanting things to work out better.Let him know that when you are arguing with him and you throw at him the bitter words,the bad attitude,let him know,it isn't the real you.Let him see the good kind you through your crying.When crying be unblaming,let him know you love him and then ask him for what you need help with.I'm telling you that your crying will reach his very soul and you will experience results from it before a week goes by.
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@katfish86 (146)
16 Jun 08
I only cried infront of my ex boyfriend once; he was in a horrible mood with me, and I was stressed with my university course. His mood wasn't helping. When I started crying he went from this horrible moody, grumpy guy into a sweet man looking after his girl. He just held me in his arms and let me cry. I'd never use crying as a way to get my own way though.
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• United States
16 Jun 08
It works though,doesn't it ? , where arguing never does.
• United States
16 Jun 08
IT works though,doesn't it ? Where arguing never does ?
• United States
16 Jun 08
Sorry,I messed up and did it twice.Didn't think it took the first time.
• New Zealand
23 Jun 08
When a girl cries in front of me whether I'm the reason or not you're right it really moves me... Back when I was in high school I keep two hankies in my pocket... one is for my own use one is for special purposes... Why? Most of my friends comes to me for advice or just to air out their bad feelings... and I've been known as their shoulder to cry on with one hankie always ready... There was one time I saw my 1st ex-gf crying in the hallway because there was a problem about their batch... all her friends were there but they couldn't stop her from crying... and her bf that time was nowhere to be found... so despite being conscious about the people surrounding her I came up to her... got my hankie from my pocket and handed it to her... I hugged her and let her cry on my shoulder... I asked what the problem was and helped solve it within a few days after that incident... but here's the catch at that time we're not yet completely ok after she broke up with me but because of that incident we began to be the best of friends again... Then there was this time when I first saw my most recent ex cry... We were just starting our friendship back then... then I saw her cry because of a conflict with her friend... I came up to her... wiped off the tears from her face... and from then on I never left her side... even after we broke up...
• United States
23 Jun 08
Thanks for sharing.By what you say,a womans crying can really move a man especially if the woman has a good heart.When a woman crys she shows her heart and the real person emerges.A good hearted womans tears can bring about a mans feeling of wanting to help and stir his very soul.Tears can be a womans strengh when she feels helpless because of the powerful effect they can have.
• New Zealand
23 Jun 08
yeah something like that... well it's always been like that for me... being the one they turn to to catch them when they fall... to wipe away their tears...
@elitess (5099)
• Ipswich, England
16 Jun 08
I guess it depends of the situations - when crying because of an emotional movie, i keep her tight in my arms, hugging and kissing her; when crying because of some arguing or of some bad exams i try (and always have a success) to make her laugh. Most of the time i feel supportive, and some times i might even cry myself - depending on the situation.
• United States
16 Jun 08
To make her laugh is your way at times of trying to get her to stop crying.I think a man will do what he can to get her to stop crying.
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