spoiling your child

i think it depends, if your child requires something which matteres little, you could satisfy him to make him happy. but if he requires something which opposes the main principle of being a good man, you should guide him to straighten up.

HI nicole, i think you should say no to thing, somtime. He should have a habit to listen 'no" other wise one day will come when " he will think that my mom will give anything whatever he want" so if you are not able to give, it will be a negative effect. So try to say no for few thing and give a soild reason for it, That we have financial buget and we need to buy this stuff(may be a car) so we have to save. and if cry then you should say that "if you will cry, you will not get any thing" If he agree that he will not get this thing now, then appriciate him to understand. enjoy:)