how can we avoid to have a broken family??

Philippines
June 17, 2008 5:53am CST
Most of us dreams to have a happy family but in this century i observed most people are too selfish thinking about their own happiness, they don't mind hurting their partners or the kids who's the one who really affected of having a broken family, how can we avoid this things? In my own opinion, i will think the best thing and the right thing as i could in the eyes of God.I wouldn't mind my own feelings if i hurt somebody i loved, I wouldn't mind people saying at me for as long as i have a clear conscience.. How about you what's your opinion about this matter?
3 responses
@misty99 (736)
17 Jun 08
True!In my family alone I have 2 brothers who are separated to their first wife.And me,honestly?I do sometimes think of joining the "club" but when i think of my kids,how their life would be without a father figure,all the consequences..I turn this thoughts off.My kids are far more important than my happiness or feelings.Cheers for the mom,lol.
• Kuwait
17 Jun 08
hai, This topic is what i had in my mind recently because nowadys iam quarelling with my partner for no reason. I dont know why . But soon after that i will feel that i am wrong. I love him deeply from my mind and also think not to quarell after that. But cant resist that.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
17 Jun 08
wonderful thinking dear cetura. how many people think like you do. selfishness is the only motive around for anything , between two close friends , family members , brothers and sisters and now husband and wife too. young children suffer for none of their faults. to avoid all this one has to develop as a human being, be a little humane , unlike animals. and love others , forget about self.