False Friend??

Hi cetura_abram, thanks for coming with this post. Actually I'm having this kind of problem now on. I just so regret, too regret till I don't want to do anything on it. I just let it be like that. My heart is full of tears and upset but I'm too tired to response or clean myself in front of the other friends. i just could say a very big gratitude for her behavior. we were so closed like sisters and now she did the back stabbing thing to be. Although my heart is full of tears and regret but deep inside I still love her as my best friend and as my sister so much. But for now on I just could say thank you so much to her.

I think that this is one of the most hurtful things that could happen. You should treat others as you would want and expect to be treated by others. A real friend would not stab you in the back.

OMG I would SNAP...I would NOT hesitate to give them a solid lecture and then I would walk away from them and end the so called friendship...I have NO tolerance for ppl like that atall

I would confront her with all the evidence. If she admits her fault, then i tell her i can no longer be her friend and tell her how a true friend should be. Hope i never have to do that.

How can you handle it? Kill them! (just kidding). Seriously, you can get even if you want, otherwise I would recommend to just not have anything more to do with him/her in the future, and maybe warn your other friends about them.

I think that, though it can be a hurtful situation, I would confront my friend first, and talk to her about it before jumping to conclusions. It may be that there is some misunderstanding. However if I was actually already completely sure of it, I would probably find out whether she was apologetic about it or not, and whether they regreted doing what they did. If they wanted to be forgiven, I would give the friendship another chance. But to be honest it depends and how much you actually value the person as a friend. Do you still want to be friends with them? Can you trust her as a freind again? If the answer is no, its better perhaps to go your seperate ways. Either way, I believe its best to keep it civil... but that might just be me lol