meeting your soulmate online?

Singapore
November 3, 2006 3:10am CST
Im interested to know how many people out there believe that we can meet our soulmate online? Well, I did and we're both from different countries.
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@annieroos (1845)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I believe that we can find our soulmate online.. I to found my love online in a chat room and its funny cause we were living only 20 mins away from each other.. started as friends and then he became my boyfriend now my husband.. and we are very happy together. We got married on nov. 7 1998... and we are living happily ever after.. Im very happy for you..glad to hear it is working out.. :)
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@annieroos (1845)
• United States
7 Nov 06
awwwwwww thank you.. you are very sweet. :)
@sabrinam (1203)
• United States
12 Nov 06
The same thing happened to me and my fiance, he was only 10 minutes away from me and we met online, a match made in heaven. In some ways I think meeting online, breaks barriers down and it's easier to be yourself. Best wishes to all!
• Singapore
3 Nov 06
Thanks for your respond. Your story proves that sometimes love may ends up in a funny way, i mean, u would not have expect to meet someone online, who turns out, to be staying only 20 mins away...my best wishes to you and your husband for the days to come! :)
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@Aeval39 (773)
• United States
7 Nov 06
We're not from different countries, but we're from different US states. You hear so much about child predators and psychopaths going online, and you never hear of any of the success stories like us. I've been with my bf for 3 years now, and we met online. We're met and I even spent the summer at his place in GA (I live in NY). I'm glad that there are others out there like me! Congrats on finding your soul mate, too. It's a good feeling, isn't it? ^^ I feel like sometimes people don't understand when I tell them I met my bf online. I didn't go looking for a mate on a dating service or anything.. it was more of an accident.
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• Singapore
8 Nov 06
Well said! I got the same response too when I tell people how i met my bf (especially when Malaysia is more conservative when it comes to online stuff), the funny look in their face sometimes made me wanna defend myself by saying more...but as time passes, I dont bother explaining at all, what matters is that we're together, he's great, my family loves him! Anyway, thanks for your reply and my best wishes to you and you bf! Hope to hear wedding bell soon!
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• Singapore
8 Nov 06
Well said! I got the same response too when I tell people how i met my bf (especially when Malaysia is more conservative when it comes to online stuff), the funny look in their face sometimes made me wanna defend myself by saying more...but as time passes, I dont bother explaining at all, what matters is that we're together, he's great, my family loves him! Anyway, thanks for your reply and my best wishes to you and you bf! Hope to hear wedding bell soon!
@Aeval39 (773)
• United States
8 Nov 06
YES Omg I know exactly how you feel. Thank you very much! It's in planning. In a few years probably. ^^
@annieroos (1845)
• United States
6 Nov 06
I believe they can, I found my husband online in a chat room.. the coolest thing was that we only lived like 20 mins away from each other.. we met.. became very good friends.. and then the rest is history.. Got married on Nov 7, 1998.. and am living happily ever after.. this is my second marriage.. and he is 11 years younger.. and its great.. He is truly my soulmate..
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• Singapore
6 Nov 06
WOW! I love this story!! Wishing you everlasting marriage and love forever!! Thanks for your reply!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
27 Nov 06
I met a couple just on the weekend that met on line and I must say I have never seen two people more suited...a wonderful thing to see.
• Singapore
27 Nov 06
That's nice! Thanks for your response!
@ramalot (295)
• India
8 Nov 06
Hi euniceeleanor Congrats for being lucky. Things may not be smooth always. All may not be lucky like you. It may be tabken as the first step but later you have to be careful in all aspects until marriage is confirmed. By best wishes to both of you.
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• Singapore
8 Nov 06
Thanks for your advise and best wishes! I wish you the same too! :)
@ladysun (635)
• United States
3 Nov 06
One can find their soul-mate anywhere I think. With the advent of the Internet, if anything, it should make it easier I should think, because it does open up the world, rather than just letting us see one small part of it. Web TV had just come out...I was a single mom and invested in it for my 2 older children for Christmas that year, but with the caution that they were not allowed to enter the realms of chat, based on stories I had heard. They of course begged and pleaded to go to chat lol.... So one day, when they were both out, I logged on and found my way to chat to see if it was as bad as I had heard and if I should reconsider. My now husband (and most assuradely my soul-mate and Great Love of this Life), was working for the Network I first headed to, running a Help Room...so he ended up being the very first person I ever chatted with and his Help Room was the first chat room I ever rencountered...hummm see what being on-line will get you ;P
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• Singapore
3 Nov 06
overall, i would have to say that meeting someone online is possible. i got to know a woman, who poses to be someone she's not, sending 'modified' picture of herself, trying to get sympathy from men that she's sick and dying and needs money for treatment. Men will send in money to her willingly even before meeting her up in person. Coming to know that cases like that is happening around, I do want to hear some positive comments about that online dating is good after all. Thank you for your respond. My best wishes to you and your family!
@ladysun (635)
• United States
6 Nov 06
I understand all too well about the deception that can happen on-line. My Brother-in_law invested nearly two years in an on-going relationship on line. Each time they had a "date" planned or a meeting, she would come up with an excuse to break it, etc... He had all kinds of pictures of this woman...a very attractive lady... they chatted on the phone all the time etc... He even nursed her through her "bout with cancer" via the net (she refused to let him visit in the hospital because she "didn't want him to see her so sick". The woman sounded way too good to be true...a very young widow, whose husband had left her very financially secure...looked like a Playboy bunny but said she sang in the church choir every sunday..oh and let's not forget about the racecar and garage hubby left behind that she managed now...and all the rental property...but she still worked full time as a nurse because she enjoyed helping people so much*sun rolls her eyes*...It just went on and on....He had so much emotionally invested in this woman, really beleived she was THE ONE...FINALLY, after a couple of years....she came clean...sent him a real pic (no clue who all the pics were she had sent previously) she was 20+ years older than she had claimed to be...and not one thing, from her physical appearance through the rest of her story, proved to be true...and get this...SHE was irate with him when he said NO MORE after that LOL...She just couldn't seem to grasp it wasn't so much about her age, looks or situation as it was all the lying and deception. I think sometimes people forget there are real human beings with feelings and emotions behind all those little pc monitors and too many treat it as just a game, hiding behind the annonimity the computer allows for.
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• Singapore
7 Nov 06
Hows your Brother in law now? Hope that he is able to move on in life. That's a terrible thing for her to do..2 years? Did he send money to her ever? I've got to know that men sends this woman (the one i was referring to above), a lot of money every month and I imagine the horror of the men when they found out that not only were they being cheated of their love, time but also money. Thanks for sharing with us! My best wishes to your BIL! and dont give up, there's a lot of lonely people out there seeking for the 1 true one online.
@plasma (673)
• India
3 Nov 06
I do. if marriages are made in heaven, then it's performed online :). kudos to you for trying a new thing and best wishes
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• Singapore
3 Nov 06
thank you. my best wishes to you too!
@justvenkys (1357)
• India
27 Nov 06
love - love
I think it is a very rare case
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• India
11 Nov 06
well,as far my concern its not possible.its a fake realisation.it cant be happened.but i wont dishearten you.afterall,five fingers are not same right?
• Singapore
11 Nov 06
it's ok, nothing anyone can say will dishearten me, after all, i'm spending so much time with him and i will be the best judge on how our relationship is going. but anyway, thanks for sharing your view! :0)
• India
12 Nov 06
its great to find out you are sporting and cool person.wish you a happy life.
• Singapore
17 Nov 06
Thank you and my wish for you too...to be happy alwuz! ;0)
@Riah50 (672)
• United States
3 Nov 06
I met my fiancee on yahoo personals. We talked for 7-8 months and then met in person. After 6 weeks he asked me to marry him and I said yes. So it is definately possible. I dont know where I would be if I had no met him.
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• Singapore
3 Nov 06
so happy to hear that! congratulations! in a world where it's filled with lies and hypocrites, i'm glad to hear this from you. thank you
@Aeval39 (773)
• United States
7 Nov 06
We're not from different countries, but we're from different US states. You hear so much about child predators and psychopaths going online, and you never hear of any of the success stories like us. I've been with my bf for 3 years now, and we met online. We're met and I even spent the summer at his place in GA (I live in NY). I'm glad that there are others out there like me! Congrats on finding your soul mate, too. It's a good feeling, isn't it? ^^ I feel like sometimes people don't understand when I tell them I met my bf online. I didn't go looking for a mate on a dating service or anything.. it was more of an accident.
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@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
23 Nov 06
Yeah, I think I have. We're also from different countries and haven't met yet. Of course, things have gotten kinda complicated and... yeah. *sigh* I can't get into it...
• Singapore
23 Nov 06
oh! it's hard sometimes, i agree...i have some friends who met someone online and there are some 'complications' as well. Hang in there, my friend. be strong. All my best wishes to you! Good Luck!
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• United States
23 Nov 06
Aww... Thanks!
@nvmbr75 (85)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Wow! Really? That's great!
• Singapore
10 Dec 06
That's really sweet! i hope to hear wedding bells soon then! Thanks for your sharing!
• United States
5 Dec 06
Anything is possible. My hubby and I know a few people that have met online and have gotten married. I think your better off doing so, because, if you can chat it up online then you've already overcome the most awkward part of dating, "talking". Last year, back in the summer, my moms best friend introduced her to a nice guy who resides in North Carolina. We live in Michigan. Believe it or not, they maintain a relationship talking on the phone on a daily basis. This has gone on for over a year. I really believe when they are both ready, they'll get married.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Dec 06
initially i was bit apprehensive. but seeing friend tieing knot with someone she met online and getting well together for 4 years now, i think it's agrreable. we can never tell when and how love happens. it just happens. finding love online is the in thing now, coz i think the amount of time we devote in here is okay to know someone. as far as true identity disclosure is concerned i am not atall apprehensive. meeting personally and having a close talk even can't get us close to the true self of a person. all the best to you two.
• Singapore
12 Dec 06
Thanks for the best wishes and i agree with you that it's not suprising to meet someone online as we spend so much time daily online....Thanks for sharing!
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
12 Dec 06
may u two be blessed.
@j_thomas (957)
• India
19 Dec 06
Dear friend i don't belive in meeting my soulmate in Online.its totally impossible
• Singapore
21 Dec 06
impossible? obviously you didnt really take the effort to go through the responses.
• United States
11 Nov 06
there's no such thing as a "soulmate". You're just people.
• Singapore
11 Nov 06
thanks for your reply
• United States
11 Nov 06
you're welcome.
@lumanci (1111)
• Italy
27 Dec 06
I think it is a positive thing that from you goddess
• Singapore
31 Dec 06
Thanks for your response!
@Tisifone (639)
• Italy
19 Dec 06
I met my actual boyfriend online and we are very happy together. He's living far from me but I am planning to move to the city where he lives.
• Singapore
21 Dec 06
That's great! I'm moving to singapore to be with my bf too! wish us both luck, huh? Thanks for sharing!
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
31 Dec 06
actually im skeptical about it if online really work out but im hoping i could find my soulmate on line. It's glad to hear that it really work out for you. I just hope for me too.
• Singapore
1 Jan 07
if you want to find someone online...it's good to be sceptical ...but dont over do it and that you will seem unapproachable...if it could work for me, it could work for anyone...afterall, i once swear off guys as i thought good men dont exist anymore LOL. All the best to you, my friend!
@jossml (464)
• Puerto Rico
21 Dec 06
Yes, it is true, is the reason of my happines, meet her at icq let her in and happy ending story for me
• Singapore
27 Dec 06
that's great! Thanks for sharing!