Daily Menu for my wife is a problem

India
June 20, 2008 4:56am CST
All Mylot freinds,Do listen to this typical type of arguement between me and my wife,and this is not for one day or so,all most all daily.The problem iswhat to cook taday or taday's menu.Either it starts one day before evening when I come back home or early in the morning.I being with my own job problems and other tensions do relax,but she want me to tell,and I get irritate for the same.Can anyone help out from this small problem?
8 responses
@naseeha (1382)
• India
29 Jun 08
Yes we too have this problem. Just try telling her the first vegetable name that pops into your mind. She will be happy and you will be relieved.
• India
29 Jun 08
Thank you for your response
@rony4u (31)
28 Jun 08
i m bachalor.
• India
28 Jun 08
get married soon. all the best,cheer up
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
this is not a problem i think, your wife just need some attention from you, usually women know what they want to cook, you don't need to teach or ask her. i think they are more professional about this thing. i never had a problem like this, when i still couple with my wife and she always go to my mom home where i was live there too i found that my wife easy to know what she want to do, she cook by herself and no one with her, she didn't asking me for the menu. Just give a little bit time to see what you wife is doing on the kitchen then she probably know that you are tired, and for that she will tell you to take a rest, and about the menu she will think it by herself. i will sure the next time you come back from work she will not irritate you and she will provide you a special menu to eats.
• India
20 Jun 08
Thank you .Thanks a lot,for your response and confidence built in me.
• United States
20 Jun 08
Did you ever stop and think that maybe she is tryin to please you and give you something to eat that she knows you'll enjoy. You mention job problems, are you considering your wife's questions as job problems too??? You sound likea self-centered husband. Your wife maybe needs some of your attention too.It sounds to me like you're a problem to her.
• India
20 Jun 08
Hello mam, Iam burdening her with my job problems,You might have mistaken me,I told I have already my problems with me,for which I have to give time for thinking.And secondly if one day or twice if it happens then ok,but daily?
@KUSHANK55 (2437)
• India
29 Jun 08
hi dear chinnu. good that it starts and ends there. you are blessed and i wish you remain blessed so that it does not cross these limits. there are many positive things in that, four hours if they were used in fighting over other issues then the whole world will know about it. now to the solution. simple thing before you reach home you carry some vegetable only one or two and announce to her on your arrival at home. this is what you are going to cook tomorrow ok. and enjoy
@kaytee717 (188)
• United States
20 Jun 08
If you get an answer please let me know. I dont mind cooking for my live in boyfriend but what do I cook? Growing up my mother wasnt a big cook but his mother was so I went there to eat. Now its the two of us and a daily discussion which usually turns into one of us being annoyed and not wanting to eat or an arguement, I look up recipies, watch cooking shows but never know and always ask. he tells me just cook Ill eat whateva, Im going to start to try and do that, that might be something...tell her whateva she cooks youll be happy, she knows what you dont like...
• India
21 Jun 08
Thnk you,thanks a lot for responding and sharing your feeling.
@kwenge (2487)
• Kenya
20 Jun 08
I dont think there is anything wrong with wife asking husband what he feels like eating becuase like my husband I can make supper then he says he just ate the same food in the office for lunch. But your wife should not ask you everytime she wants to cook. Ok to make your work easier you should sit down the both of you and draft a whole week menu then she will be following it everyday.
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
22 Jun 08
My husband eats whatever I cook for him, he's not picky at all. He says he don't care what we have, as long as he gets something to eat. I don't mind cooking what he wants either, sometimes I'll ask him if theres any certain thing that he's been craving and if I have the ingredients I'll cook it. You all need to sit down and write out a menu for the week, just tell her what you would like, so that way she will know what she needs to do for that day.