listener or speaker?

Philippines
June 20, 2008 4:13pm CST
i am ore of the speaker when i am with my friends...but they do need a good listener I am very much into as well as the need arises...but usually I am more of a talker hehehehe... waht about you guys? thnks
6 responses
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
22 Jun 08
Depends on the kind of friend I'm with hehe. If I'm with a friend who's very talkative and the chatty type, then I'm more of a listener type with her. I have this guy friend who's very quiet, so when I hang out with him I tend to be the one who talks a lot.
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
aok...nice one...i find it sweet....
@leateagee (3667)
• China
20 Jun 08
Though I can be both, I am more of a speaker. So far all the friends are I had are good listeners. LOL. I have so many stories to tell so they have to listen. I listen if I have too. I don't like to have a quiet moment because if that ahppens I will be quiet for the whole day. I need overflowing energy soon as I wake up because I always wish to have a blast in my everyday living. Though I am not at my best in the morning, a good start can kick off the whole day and give me more best at night. Take care =)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
i guess you had an event that you are tellign a story until your friends fall asleep hahahaa...kidding...(i had that with my sister one late evening...) thnks...you talker hahahaha
• United States
20 Jun 08
I always end up being the listener when I'm around a group of people. When I do try to speak I'm usually pushed to the side and my opinions go right through them. Fun, huh? So I just listen. The best thing I can do in talkative situations is lend an ear. I go out of my way to respect others, but sometimes I don't get it back.
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
awts that so sad and mean of them to do that to you...even you seldom speaks your vies should be heard and noticed....
@trell8402 (274)
• United States
20 Jun 08
I am more of a listener. I only talk most of the time if I have to. My friends usually end up calling me. I do call them sometimes....but only to check up on them or I have something to tell them. I prefer listening, though, and that's what I'm good at. I'm like everybody's diary.
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
wow that is so cool...you are like my bestfriend we are very differnt she is the listener i am the talker that is how we keep our friendship all these years...we are bestfriends for over a decade now... thnks
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
20 Jun 08
TALKER.....DEFINITELY!! I just don't know when 2 hush up. As a matter of fact people have called my attention to it plenty of times. I am trying to learn how to listen more I'm considering doing some research on how to improve my listening skills because it seems to be getting WORSE!!
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
this was my p[rob b4 but i have learned to really listen bcoz it draws trust from you friends and compassion as well..
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
I'm the speaker almost every time. But of course, I can be listener if my friend having problem. I like to speak, as I have many point to let my friend almost every time. I will always be the one who speak first, and most while I go out with my best friend.
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
it feels like i ma the one whose talking here..we are alike doing the same way..and in how you expressed it it felt so much like me hahahaha.... nice one