how do you heal a broken heart???
By sendoh_07
@sendoh_07 (221)
June 20, 2008 10:56pm CST
im asking this because until now im still broken hearted...would you please help me??
5 responses
@kissie34 (2294)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
There is a saying, "IT IS EASY TO FORGIVE BUT VERY DIFFICULT TO FORGET". And I believe in this saying. By the way, if you don't mind may I know what happen? Why you are broken hearted? I think the best way for you to heal your heart is to find someone who can heal your heart. Go with your friends and hang out. If possible, throw or keep all the things that could remember him/her. Stop thinking all the happy memories that you have with him and also the bad ones. Just think the future and stop going back to the past especially if he/she is there.
@victoria1 (1)
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25 Jun 08
the way i think to mend a broken heart is to do all the things you couldnt do when you was with the person who hurt you get loads of hobbies and surround yourself with family and friends see your own worth and in time you gain strength from the people who truly love you if in time someone else comes along make them work for your worth if they really think anything of you they will without question because they will see the qualities you have but replace hurt and pain with fun and laughter create your own happy memories and never let anyone strip you of the love you have remaining also remember you are not alone with your pain everyone hurts and everyone learns xxx
@sendoh_07 (221)
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21 Jun 08
is that a good idea even if you knew to you self that you still love him or her??can you hurt him/her??
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
21 Jun 08
You heal a broken heart by being around friends, family and continue to do the things that you love. Your heart is not broken, you are disappointing in your choice of love. A heart cannot be broken. Your heart can only be disappointed, so the next time you are falling in love try and use the mistake that you made as a lesson that don't make the same thing happen again. They say in life that every disappointment is for a good. If you are suffering from a disappointment cheer up and move on. Remember you only have one life.
@relundad (2310)
• United States
22 Jun 08
You accept the things that you can not change, and keep moving towards a happy relationship. Sometimes in the middle of the pain its hard to see the light. But everything happens for a reason. You have to find the strength to know that if the person "broke" your heart then either they were not right for you or the relationship was not right for you. People that love you dont hurt you. Just know that behind every dark cloud is sunshine. So use your energy to focus on the person that you are and what you have to offer a relationship. Persue that relationship with no baggage from the old one. That next person and relationship are right around he corner, but you have to prepared mentally to welcome it. Its hard to do that when you are thinking about the what-ifs of a relationship that over.
@skosnas (5)
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23 Jun 08
A broken heart is never ever easy... Having been there may times, I always found comfort in family and friends surrounding me. When the times came to be reflective I allowed myself to hurt and work through it. I still sometimes feel a twinge of pain when I think about certain times, but I realize now 12 years later that I needed to have that life experience to make myself remember that I am worthy of love and compassion and that what hurts will only make me stronger. My best buddy through it all was a homeless black kitten I happened to find at just the right time when I needed something to need me just as much as I needed it. Hang in there... In your darkest hour, realize that it WILL get better as each day goes on... Healing the heart is a process just like grieving. You must allow yourself to work through that process.
