will the family forgive him or not!?

Philippines
June 22, 2008 5:48am CST
my brother did some scam and he left us full of debt. even the small business that we have will be shut off because he failed to pay all the bills and that the income cant afford anymore to cover it up. will the family forgive him..accept him again for this is the 2nd time he did this to us?!?!
5 responses
• Philippines
22 Jun 08
I think your initial reaction to him is to get angry and be mad... that you wanted him to leave you house. I think this is just a normal reaction but, later on, eventhough he had commited a mistake, still, yoo will accept him... Because he is part of your family, and whatever he did to you should know how to forgive him and gave him another chance... as the saying... blood is thicker than water...
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
thank for the comment
• Philippines
12 Jul 08
thanks for appreciating my response... no matter how bad the person is... always give him a chance for the second time... and blood is ticker than water...
@sitadevi (22)
22 Jun 08
can't say..it's actually like.if he's realised his mistake, he might not do it again...but if he did not, he may commit the mistake again...so, mostly da family should not accept and even if it does , you people should be careful with him..so dat he doesnt repeat the mistake again!
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
thanks for the comment
@mythreya (90)
• India
22 Jun 08
I dont think your family will pardon him if he did it more than once.u will be making a mistake by inviting him again.there is no guarantee that he will not do that again. u should support your family in these troubled times.u should feel strong.The circumstances will get adjusted themselves after some time.just cheer up.
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
thanks for the comment!
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
14 Aug 08
Hi ette, I guess it is better to forgive him but he has to help the family in clearing the bills and bring back the business...He has to work hard to gain the trust back and if he is sincere, for sure, you will not be having a second thought for giving him a second or third chance!
• China
22 Jun 08
I can understand your feeling .everthing is because he is your brother.you hate him but you have to love him.he is your brother .nothing can change the fact.i think you can talk with your brother .tell him you love him and hope him to beaome a good man