why Can't Girls Just Apologize?

India
June 22, 2008 1:27pm CST
,m a Guy and I've notices, most of the Women, Girls i mean the feminine side of my society fails to do SImple tasks but think of big big things, life becomes so annoying when these things happen, first my friends, not my girl and then my mom. When they do a mistake, they don't say a Sorry, neither do they Apologize, does it take that much courage to Apologize????? Why its the boys always who have to do that work??? Its very irritating and all that anger is going to come out of my head and that day is going to be very BAD BAD BAD, now if you are a girl reading this please explain the concept why it's so difficult to say sorry, and if you are a boy COMMENT ON THIS!!!
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12 responses
• India
23 Jun 08
I am also the one ..... who want to know the answer to this question.. I mean girls are so mean.... with high attitude... they just think they are angels from some fairy world. and they dont need to apologize.
@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
23 Jun 08
uhm excuse me? boys always do all the work? Im pretty sure you have no idea what your talking about apparently. Guys are the most stubborn creatures on the earth. They can't admit when they're wrong, and therefore, they wont apologize (even if they know they should) I dont find its difficult at all apologizing, whether I want to or not, Ill apologize if its needed. Maybe your mother or girlfriend didnt apologize to you, because when the mistake was made, your reaction made her feel like she shouldnt bother. By how ignorant your comments on women were, I can see why they dont feel you deserve and apology. Girls are capable of many things, they do a hell of a lot more then your giving them credit for. Maybe if you showed them a little more respect you just might get some back.
• China
23 Jun 08
I think girls also say a sorry .But I think they can't express themsvevs in a right way. If they do a wrong thing,they can do a delious food to express their apologize.And I think your girlfriend did the something for you .You should learn how to find the way they express.
• Vietnam
23 Jun 08
I'm a girl. Your problem is interesting. But I found that it so different from my society or maybe because I was so innocent when think that everybody is the same with me. In my society, when you do something wrong, if you are able to say sorry, you are a courage person no matter you are a male or female. In fact, there are a lot of people who are not dare to say sorry, expecially when they stay in a high position. The word 'sorry' become so difficult to speak. For myself, i respect someone who dare to say sorry, but not always be sorry. Say 'sorry' properly, at the right time will improve the condition. Sometimes, 'sorry' could be an action, that could be more real than thoudsands of word 'sorry'.
@celticeagle (117767)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Jun 08
I am not a man but I do have an opinion. Men and women both have this irritating problem. It comes from not feeling comfortable in ones own skin and not knowing ones self well enough to just say the words.
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
It's not difficult to apoligize. It depends to a woman if they admits that they're worng. But some girls is indenial to do so. They also thinking that if your a gentleman you will do your first move. Maybe this is it. It's my opinion.
@kissie34 (2296)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
Maybe most of the girls that you met has a high pride that they don't want to asked for an apology or maybe they don't do anything bad or wrong for them to asked sorry.. I don't know.. I can't answer on your questions but don't generalized it, okay! I think NOT ALL GIRLS are not asking for an apology when they do something wrong.. Because if I know that I had hurt the feeling or other (man or woman) I asked an apology to them but if I didn't do anything wrong then why should I.. If it is not my intention.. I keep on asking sorry to my boyfriend when I know that I've hurt him or I have done something wrong.. And besides I don't lose anything when I asked a simple Sorry to someone that I know that I have hurt..
• India
23 Jun 08
girls are head weight not all, some girls are very good once u see the girl u think she is good girl always she is good girl, it's all about ur way of thinking then ur attitude is pl change other wise it's very diffcult in ur life.
@lingli_78 (12846)
• Australia
23 Jun 08
i don't think you can make generalisations like that... you can say some girls or women find it hard to apologise when they make mistakes... but not all... i am a very open person... if i make a mistake, i will apologise straight away and admit my mistake... so not all that you say is right... i am a woman and i can apologise... be careful when you are making generalisations as you can hurt any women's feelings here... take care and have a nice day...
• China
23 Jun 08
well,take it easy! Don't pay much attention on wether a girl say 'I am sorry...' or not,and do not take care of why a girl who made a mistake didn't give u apologize,both of them are quite common. If u say that's unfair to men,what I wanna tell u is that the world has already been unfair for a long time,and no one could change it,so what you need to do is to be gentle,I think.
@Kaeli72 (1230)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Here's how I'm thinking: As a girl, it's not hard to say "I'm sorry". But as a woman who has been beaten and abused by jerks for men, it's not easy to say "I'm sorry" because, well, there's nothing to be sorry about. If what I do I did by accident, yes, I'll say those two words. But, if I did something to prove a point, I have been known to twist my words around by saying, "I'm sorry you feel this way...BUT" Now, I can say the same about me...why can't they appologize? But then, I found out, it wasn't men, it was the men I was with. My ex was FAMOUS for never appologizing, even if the evidence was in his face! But, my current one is known to always appologizing. Depends on the individual.
• Canada
22 Jun 08
I think you're generalizing here. Either you're overreacting or you really are surrounded by the type of women you describe. I can't say, because I don't know you. I know of many women who will turn around and say what you just said about your gender. It was this way with my husband at first, but when he realized that I am able to admit to being wrong with no problems, and et on with it, he was better at doing it, himself. We have a rule in conflict. Most logical point wins!! He knows that logic is my strong point, but like everyone else, I am only human.