Third day!!! we have not talked to eachother !! please suggest !!

India
June 22, 2008 10:40pm CST
Hi All, I have not talked to my friend from last three days, I called her yesterday but she didnt responded to my call. On last firday she said that "i dont want to speak to anyone", i asked her "does that includes me?" no answer. I am calling her but she is not picking the call, can you suggest me, what should i do now? help!!
6 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
23 Jun 08
How about visiting her, maybe she has a serious problem.....There are so many speculations that we can make but it is better maybe to drop by in her place at least you will personally know what's going on in her life! I am not sure about my suggestions, but if this happen to my friend, that will be the first thing I will consider if I can't ask or contact anyone if her family and ask what happen to her!
• United States
30 Jul 08
Thanks for the BR, Happy posting!
• Australia
28 Jul 08
If she does not want to speak to anyone that may mean a variety of different things are happening. I would sugguest a call about every 2-3 days just to day hi and that you are thinking about them. If it still goes on you may want to try a visit or speaking with a mutual friend or their relative to ensure everything is ok.
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
Hi friend. I think you need to give her some space for the mean time. When he cool down that's the only time you can talk to her and it should be personally not on the phone. And the question, what happened? Is she mads at you or are you the reason why she is acting like this or she had a problem. You better ask her what's the matter so you can help her.
• India
23 Jun 08
if she is not telling you her problem then its a problem for you. If you know any of her verrrry close friend(girl) then ask her if she knows anything(girls often share more with other girls). Once you know her problem then try to communicate with her. If she is not picking up her phone....dont stop calling....let her know that you are there....give her some time...maybe she is very upset about somethng right now. If you come to know that she is upset with you for SOME or ANY reason...then send her lots of sweet sorry cards(ecards os whatever).... Wish you all the luck !!!
@agihcam (1914)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
Are you the one causing the problem or she/he? If you are not the one then I would suggest to wait and I am sure that she/he will contact you soon.If she/he is really your friend then it will happen I guess.
@Allie666 (60)
• China
23 Jun 08
Leaving her some time. The misunderstanding will not cast a shadow on your true friendship. Best wishes!