When letting go means opening doors.
By gmakesmoney
@gmakesmoney (2923)
United States
June 23, 2008 2:46am CST
Have you ever stopped to think, right in the middle of the ending of a relationship, that in reality it is the doorway to finding a deeper love? If you are with someone you love and you feel deep inside somewhere that the little things just don't add up and that the "love" you get in return feels less like love and more like the last option... then what better feeling then that of knowing that you are free to discover new loves and experiences. Not every relationship that fails is a failure. Each relationship serves to teach us what we want and don't want and what we're willing to give up and not give up in the name of love. Just a thought.
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4 responses
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
24 Jun 08
you are right. when you're letting go, no matter how painful it is doesn't mean that it's already the end of the world. it's just simply an opportunity for you to discover yourself more alone and appreciate life no matter how. at the end of the road, you will always meet someone who can make your heart beat again... a new person to begin a new life with.
anne
@gmakesmoney (2923)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Thanks! I agree it really can be the start of a new life and happier moments.
@celticeagle (159301)
• Boise, Idaho
23 Jun 08
You have just said a massive amount of jewels of wisdom. This is what all of us need to incorporate into the greeving process. This is where we all need to finally come out after the hurt and pain of the ending of a relationship.
@gmakesmoney (2923)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Thank you. The end of a relationship can be tough but I believe that it's important to completely go through the grieving process in order to have a healthy relationship with someone new later on. It's something I failed to do many, many times and just now finally understood.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
24 Jun 08
i can't agree more with you... yes, we have to let go to be able to receive better things in life... we can't do that if we still holding on to something as our hands are full... so we have to empty our hands first to be able to grab other better things in life... take care and have a nice day...
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Jun 08
It looks like it is nothing. but at times, there are things taht the new love may not be as intense as this one. who can say? letting go can mean just forget this which was not true love. May be awaiting for the best.
