How do you discover a friendly person in first meeting?

@anex08 (868)
Philippines
June 23, 2008 3:18am CST
There are saying that " You cannot judge a book by its cover " but we have to admit the fact that some people instinct are great even when identifying friendly people on their first meeting. I do not have that ability but I am a friendly person and I could easily interact and made real friends to those people that I meet the first time. They say that I am a friendly one and that characteristics is noticeable but they cannot explain the aspect how I became friendly in the first place they said they just feel it. I am still wondering how could a certain person discover that the stranger in her front is a friendly one? Is it because the look, the smile, the speaking method or a completely unique aura?
2 responses
• India
23 Jun 08
Its a collection of things. The eye contact, body language, smile, frequency of touching involved, the thoughts, the words all of them combine to mak u realize if u can be friends with someone. More often than not, it happens so quickly that we are not even aware of it. Like, you wont be too friendly with someone who just stares blankly at some where else while u talk to her, neither would u be want to friends with someone who keeps gazing in your eyes as if something else is on his/her mind. SImilarly works for other things, the body language, the confidence, introverted or extroverted .. complemenrs you and your ideas or is like a twin .. I think all of them count .. I think i missed a few in fact. :P
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@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
Wow! That's a very good explanation you have there. thank you for sharing, You are also a friendly one I guess.
• India
23 Jun 08
Ive been told im pretty friendly :) .. But you do sometimes come across to somep eople ud rather stay away from. Anyways, thanks a lot ;)
@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
Thank you again.. I will keep that in mind. Best response!
• China
23 Jun 08
it's really hard to judge certain person at the first sight. i used to think that people should be friendly at any time if there's no special reasons. maybe it is because the look, the smile, the speaking method. wish you happy day.
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@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
Thank you for responding. Have a nice day too..